Need advice on pursuing the right avenue

[Deleted Member]

Putting this in gay BDSM as I need to better wrap my mind around how to best move forward looking for a partner.

While I’m a male, I’m interested in being anally used, although I have no interest in men. Although I get around a butch woman packing and I want to be her girl. Oh and of course I know a majority of butch’s are not interested in men, and my other interests point towards a male partner. Despite having no interest in men whatsoever..

Not sure if than makes me a queer, a sissy, asexual or something else.. would appreciate any advice or insight. Thanks

[Pe****]

Sounds like your basic desire is a femdom into pegging. Wanting to be her GIRL takes it from regular submissive into sissy. The more feminized you want to be, the more sissy you are. You seem to be interested in sexual activities, so I wouldn't say you're asexual. Queer can mean anything these days, so I wouldn't use that to advertise. Good luck in your search.

[Ku****]

I concur. You are looking for a femdom, IE a dominant female. This is not gay it is just a different power dynamic relationship.

Just keep in mind relationship wise it may or may not be a good idea to start with "Will you fuck me with a strap-on?".

If there are femdoms in your area you can politely ask if they are willing to take on a new submissive that is interested in pegging.

You can try posting an add on here or going to Munches and meeting other kinksters. Talk to people of all genders that have been in the seen for some time. You may not want a guy to fuck you, but if they are into it too. They may vouch for you and help you find that girl.

[Deleted Member]

Thank you both for the solid advice, I appreciate it.