Bi**** Posted November 15 I think that sending teasing pics is more of a turn on. I don't usually post nudes but I don't hide.
Bi**** Posted November 15 This site makes it pretty clear and i think it does it in a good way. For example- i can click on someone’s profile and see their pictures. Can see their hidden pictures and then you kind of have an idea that they like to share pics and they don’t mind. Most women i’ve talked to, been with, dated or some combination of those just wanted to feel respected 🤷🏻 if just looking at naked women is your goal there are other places for that. In 2025 it has never been easier. Also, for whatever it’s worth- some of the best people ive been with didnt like taking nudes or sending them but they walked the walk in person. I’ve had women that never made videos before ask to make videos because they felt safe, respected, and not rushed. Everyone’s approach is different i suppose, but posts like these are why some women ditch men and start kissing women. 🤷🏻
Ma**** Posted November 15 When you date in the non-kink world, do you see the person naked first? Nope! Why should it be any different? I don't want people who are only attracted to me physically, so what you find me attractive and want to fuck me but spend no time getting to know me! Please that's some bullshit. It's like saying people here should put out on a first date! No, you go slow, just like a normy, you build up the attraction and communication, the trust, because without that, kink can't happen. Even if we do start a sexual relationship there's no guarantee I'll send you nudes. Grow up!
Deleted Member Posted November 15 I don’t think it’s discrimination. It’s more discernment. It’s realizing that you don’t owe anybody your body if you don’t consent to it. What if somebody just decided that they were entitled to your home? They should be able to walk into your house without your consent, or drive your car without your permission, or eat your food without being invited, etc.? Why are you gatekeeping your home from strangers? What if somebody felt entitled to your kidney, are you OK with just handing that over without your consent? You feel entitled to their body, so where does the line draw with the consent to yours? It’s important to remember that consent is one of the foundations of the lifestyle. It’s not just about what you want and feel entitled to.
ey**** Posted November 15 aside from your take being... odd apps HAVE to hide adult content because it's within the terms of the app stores
ac**** Posted November 15 How about be human and think of others' feelings can't believe you even spent the time to even write that
Mr**** Posted November 15 Some people just be posting for the sake of it. Must be lonely. The world doesnt need to read your brain farts dude. Get a diary. Write this nonsense in there.
Qu**** Posted November 15 Everyone is not trustworthy. Some people don’t have good intentions. It’s an act of self preservation.
Pe**** Posted November 15 This comes off as either excessively naive or grossly entitled. This is a dating app, not an OF or porn site. Besides, none of those problems are real. . 1. Physical attraction is a key component, but nudity is completely unnecessary to find somebody attractive or arousing. When you take kinks into consideration, nudity is even less of a factor. Compatibility and respect go a lot farther in a relationship than appearance. The only reason a person would care more about nudes is because they're looking for hook ups, not a relationship. That's fine, but people looking for more shouldn't be expected to present themselves the same way. Some people even find it more attractive when a potential partner isn't displaying everything for everyone. Best to just let people be themselves. . 2. That's completely backward. People showing off their bodies get way more attention than those who don't. Nudity makes a lot of losers feel like it's okay to treat the person as a free use slut who should have to give them what they want. On top of that, more images? There are millions, if not billions, of free images and videos online. You think the people here providing or withholding pics is the deciding factor for things like criminal elements? Besides, by that logic, the way to stop all crime is to give everyone everything they want no matter what. The entire concept is absolutely ridiculous. Criminals deserve to be punished, not catered to. . 3. There is a big difference between, "You don't qualify to look at me;" and, "I'm not comfortable with an entire app of strangers being able to look at me naked." The only problems that could be cycled back to are entitled losers getting angry. Hopefully, they just get reported and perma banned.
Ma**** Posted November 15 Why is it anyone else's business what a person does with their own nudes? Not everyone is able to show their nudes for *** of whatever. If it is their ***, it should be respected and honored as much as their kink. I get the feeling this person just wants to see more naked pics. There are other apps for that
Deleted Member Posted November 15 I haven't seen such epic gaslighting since I blocked my ex. Saying that those who don't share nudes are setting false expectations, pushing unwanted attention on themselves AND discriminating against those who want to see us nude. Which would include you, wouldn't it? Or is it just one category of people who have to show their nudes for you. It's a load of narcissistic, gaslighting codswallop and you've convinced no-one.
Ki**** Posted November 15 I know many people who are willing to share their private pictures (nudes) on this site, especially after a connection has been made. Remember that their nudes and submission, is a gift.
De**** Posted November 15 It’s not really nice to tell someone they aren’t worthy, but based on this post I’ll just give you a clue- “you aren’t worthy to look at anyone’s body.” Maybe that clears stuff up for ya. 👍🏼
fu**** Posted November 15 This gives off I bought a women a drink at a bar, she owes me her number. Maybe it’s because they looked at your pictures, and realized you look creepy AF. Then when you were talking to you, they realized that you are creepier than F and they decided to not share their nudes.
In**** Posted November 15 I have my reasons. 1 being that i have no body confidence. No one has helped give me confidence the amount ive been ripped apart for my size. 2. The last time someone had access to photos on a site - not this one - they decided to share them across the Internet for a revenge p0rn for no utter reason. Luckily I got him arrested. So yeah im definitely guarded.
ki**** Posted November 15 Nudes are shared when a relationship is formed and BOTH parties have AGREED to terms of the relationship and are COMFORTABLE with sharing their nudes, HOWEVER this is case by case and NOT everybody wants to show that and that is COMPLETELY okay. This topic however will get you burned at the stake asshole.
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