Your submissive isn't yours

[Ph****]

Your submissive isn't yours because she gave you her body. Not by the thud and slap of paddle against flesh, the scent and taste of yielding, moist skin. Not by every fantasy made true or the sensual heaven of tangled limbs. These magical moments might make her your whore, but as a person they don't make her yours.

She's not yours unless you're a Dominant who leads with strength and compassion. The kind who knows trust is a privilege and must be earned with consistency of action. That every consistent act is as solid as stone but words are as ephemeral as mist when words alone.
You have to be patient when she withdraws, gentle when she doubts herself, and steady and secure when the world feels chaotic and uncertain. You must listen when she speaks, command but also guide, be open and authentic, and make only choices that help you both rise.
Do you know her how she worries she doesn't deserve love, and that she's a burden, unworthy, and not good enough? Do you know how memory's dark
shadows haunt her each night? Or the secrets shame she hides and feels forever stained by? Do you know she has to be strong but wishes she could cry?
She’s yours because she feels safe, respected, accepted and seen. She’s yours because when she submits to you, she feels more herself, and free then she’s even been.

[Ki****]

Awesome read!

[SH****]

If he has to earn anything from her shes not A real sub

[me****]

Yeah but what if her body is only yours till she deems it isn't worthy enough

Not by the thud and slap of a paddle she wanted

The scent of *** of insecurities that emit for the pores of the skin as she yields out of fighting the urges to feel anything because she's dead inside and wants to feel something, anything from anyone of the desire of being wanted and possessed until she deems enough

Not by the smut she reads because her mundane good life with her husband or bf wanting them to be more daring, dashing, smoldering look because of the perversion of a paperback often digital literature twisting the narrative of what desire truly is. One sided often and when we finally deserve a love and we get it. We are jadded of wanting to dump ourselves into someone entirely again. So we wait l, we wait till re see red flags and weight the options of actually treating you like a good girl if you deserve it. Because why should we dump ourselves into harlots who run around anyway.

Shes not your till she wants to protect your peace as much as her. She will still push buttons and that's because it's the nature of the beast.

There are brats because they were unwanted and now they want to everliving shit loved out of them or else. Or else they make a profile and get 45 followers in a half a day 🤣🤣 she's not yours, it's just your turn. So no matter what cooze she throws at you, she always has a hidden inbox. So go through her phone.

They want you to be possessive and "claim" them. Well test your theory and trust your thoughts

[vi****]

I really like that alot I want to please the body not beat it to death

[au****]

The thing is, she is only yours by consent to be yours. The moment she deems you or herself not yours is the moment it ends. Full stop. As a dom or a sub that is the true nature of any relationship. If one in the relationship is not consenting anymore... it is not a relationship at that point. Trust, comfort, and all the other emotions that go into it... all have to be met and seen and nurtured. So no you do not own the sub, you take care of the sub and I. Doing so the sub takes care of you.

[Ph****]

2 hours ago, mexidad01 said:

Yeah but what if her body is only yours till she deems it isn't worthy enough

Not by the thud and slap of a paddle she wanted

The scent of *** of insecurities that emit for the pores of the skin as she yields out of fighting the urges to feel anything because she's dead inside and wants to feel something, anything from anyone of the desire of being wanted and possessed until she deems enough

Not by the smut she reads because her mundane good life with her husband or bf wanting them to be more daring, dashing, smoldering look because of the perversion of a paperback often digital literature twisting the narrative of what desire truly is. One sided often and when we finally deserve a love and we get it. We are jadded of wanting to dump ourselves into someone entirely again. So we wait l, we wait till re see red flags and weight the options of actually treating you like a good girl if you deserve it. Because why should we dump ourselves into harlots who run around anyway.

Shes not your till she wants to protect your peace as much as her. She will still push buttons and that's because it's the nature of the beast.

There are brats because they were unwanted and now they want to everliving shit loved out of them or else. Or else they make a profile and get 45 followers in a half a day 🤣🤣 she's not yours, it's just your turn. So no matter what cooze she throws at you, she always has a hidden inbox. So go through her phone.

They want you to be possessive and "claim" them. Well test your theory and trust your thoughts

This piece is written for the submissives who give so much of themselves and still question whether they’re worthy. It speaks to the silent ***s they carry, the shadows they’ve survived, and the longing to feel safe in the hands of someone who truly deserves them. If these words help a submissive feel less alone or inspire a Dominant to lead with compassion, then this piece has served its purpose.

[Ph****]

2 hours ago, SHONTHEDON said:

If he has to earn anything from her shes not A real sub

The Dom has to earn just as much as the submissive has to earn... ..

[fe****]

4 hours ago, SHONTHEDON said:

If he has to earn anything from her shes not A real sub

Or u are not a real dom thought about that?

[su****]

JUST THIS 💯💯💯🎯 Absolutely nailed it 👌

[su****]

It’s the greatest honor you can give to us, it’s our responsibility to ensure you continue to feel precious to us.
It’s a shame that some don’t understand, and take advantage of it.

[Deleted Member]

8 hours ago, Phoenix13lilly said:

This piece is written for the submissives who give so much of themselves and still question whether they’re worthy. It speaks to the silent ***s they carry, the shadows they’ve survived, and the longing to feel safe in the hands of someone who truly deserves them. If these words help a submissive feel less alone or inspire a Dominant to lead with compassion, then this piece has served its purpose.

If you don't feel the connection to your partner and she don't feel it having with you, then you don't have a relationship. Everything else are only words. If I don't have the understanding what she feels or why I can't be her dom and expect anything from her. Think about two scuba divers who are responsible for each other if they run our of air. When you dive 30ft together and you feel safe ,doesn't matter dom or sub ,then you know what you can expect in your bedroom.

[JT****]

Remember that being a Dominant means taking care of your submissive in every way, even little ways like fixing the strap her her shoe. To paraphrase a famous quote: You are never so Dominant as when you stoop to care for your submissive.

[JT****]

A Dominant must be even more careful with his words than he is with his hands.
A bruised behin will heal in days. a bruised spirit
- may be damaged for life.

[JT****]

A Dom's control is a sub's release.

[JT****]

Why do strong woman seek to submit?
Because when you find the Man who is strong enough to truly dominate them he's a fucking revelation.

[LN****]

I thought this was so beautifully written. It was as if you were describing my heart and my needs. Thank you for having such strength and courage to share this.

[Th****]

Wrong

[Th****]

The above comment was a response to a stupid comment not the original writings. Beautifully written

[Ph****]

Yesterday at 03:17 AM, LNicole318 said:

I thought this was so beautifully written. It was as if you were describing my heart and my needs. Thank you for having such strength and courage to share this.

I remember when I lost my voice and know I try hard to speak for others and let them know that they are not alone...

[LN****]

Hey ThrOatslayer, You’re just an angry little guy because you need to come on here to get attention because no one on this site likes you and doesn’t care what you think, have to say, nor would anyone ever want you! Gross!

[Th****]

No no no please don’t think that. I tried commenting on a comment above, that was being nasty. This app is crazy buggy. I agree wholeheartedly with the message of this post

[Ph****]

1 hour ago, Thr0atSlayer said:

No no no please don’t think that. I tried commenting on a comment above, that was being nasty. This app is crazy buggy. I agree wholeheartedly with the message of this post

Thank you and I agree this app has alot crazy buggy...

[Ph****]

1 hour ago, Thr0atSlayer said:

No no no please don’t think that. I tried commenting on a comment above, that was being nasty. This app is crazy buggy. I agree wholeheartedly with the message of this post

Just a tip if someone says something.. if you tap the quote sign below the comment beside the heart. You can actually tag the comment. So people will know who you are referring to. So , you won't have miscommunication , hope this helps

[Ph****]

1 hour ago, LNicole318 said:

Hey ThrOatslayer, You’re just an angry little guy because you need to come on here to get attention because no one on this site likes you and doesn’t care what you think, have to say, nor would anyone ever want you! Gross!

I think there was some miscommunication. He was responding to a comment. And because the person was not tagged .. it got misunderstood... i gave him some tips on how to tag someone when you're responding to a specific comment. It's understandable that this communication happens, especially through text messages.