Your submissive isn't yours

[Ph****]

Also, please.Everybody take consideration that this topic can still be respected.We do not need to call people names. We are all adults.. i have a big giant heart, and I hope you can understand that I don't want to cause any confrontation.Please. we can all be mature.Adults still have a discussion and have different opinions.And I am always open to different opinions.

[Sa****]

The difference between submitting to someone who aims to make you the best you can be and someone who just wants to expand on their experiences for selfish reasons is a telltale sign that you're dealing with a *** Dom. You don't submit because you have a passing fancy to try out some kinks, you submit because you are trusting someone to be there for you in more ways than a vanilla marriage. Sure, you have your independence in both, but that 1950s provider is also a leader just like a true Dom. So many get that wrong and this post is so beautifully written to showcase how deep a submission should be valued. 💞💞💞