Question for everyone

[Ma****]

So long term, it's just as enjoyable and as much of a turn on, it just becomes about a little planning and learning when you actually want to make her squirt and when it's less convenient. If you rolled over for a little something something after waking up in the middle of the night, or if you're going for that quickie before the family arrives for Thanksgiving dinner you may both want to curb your approach. Changing the sheets at 1 in the morning, sleeping in a puddle or having your parents arrive while you're mopping up your partners juices and she's still shuddering from her orgasam may not be the best idea. So just figure out how to control and enjoy sex with or without it and choose when it's makes sense to go that far. Or make sure you're always finishing in his mouth, then you won't have to worry about the clean up 😉. Ultimately enjoy it for you and don't be self conscious, if your partner's not keen, that's their loss.

[Ge****]

That’s what water proof blankets are made for 😉

[42****]

I know this was directed for the men….. as a lady, I really enjoy being able to make a lady squirt. It makes me so very hot 🤤

[La****]

Yesterday at 01:35 AM, AuraBelle said:

I can absolutely relate to a lot of what you're sharing here, and I'm so sorry you've had those negative experiences, especially a partner getting mad or making you feel bad about something your body naturally does.

For me, I've had experiences where a partner would tell me I '***d' when I squirted, and it completely shook my confidence and made me feel exactly like you describe, like my body was 'doing something people don't like.' It completely messed with my head and made me want to avoid it altogether, even though it was incredibly pleasurable for me.

What I'm learning now, and what I really wish I knew then, is that squirt is absolutely not ***. It's a completely different fluid that comes from the Skene's glands, and it's a powerful, healthy, and completely normal part of some women's sexual response. No one should ever make you feel ashamed or 'dirty' for it.

To answer your questions, a truly good partner will never get annoyed or make you feel bad. They'll be fascinated, turned on, and thrilled that your body is experiencing such intense pleasure. If they're annoyed, that's 100% their issue and lack of understanding, not yours.

It's okay to take your time to build trust with someone new, but please know that your body's responses are beautiful, and a truly respectful partner will see it that way too. Don't let anyone's ignorance steal your pleasure. You're definitely not alone in feeling this way after those kinds of experiences.

Thank you for sharing <3 I’m sorry you experienced this too and glad we’re not alone. I’ll keep this in mind going forward. I hope you have better experiences with it too

[Au****]

22 hours ago, Layla0000025 said:

Thank you for sharing <3 I’m sorry you experienced this too and glad we’re not alone. I’ll keep this in mind going forward. I hope you have better experiences with it too

Lala, you are so welcome! Your reply meant a lot and made me feel less alone too. 😊

I'm happy to share that, yes, I am having much better, respectful experiences now. It took some tough learning, but it's absolutely possible to find a partner who celebrates you fully.

Keep trusting yourself.

[il****]

I had an ex that squirted. She broke up with me for her now husband but we were fine. There's soft fabrics you can lay down to keep everything dry: sofas, carpet, bed. I loved knowing when she came and the wetter she became the more she could come again

[La****]

Yesterday at 12:48 AM, 420setgo said:

I know this was directed for the men….. as a lady, I really enjoy being able to make a lady squirt. It makes me so very hot 🤤

Good to know too! I should’ve worded it differently. That’s also helpful <3