Overall opinion on this app?

[Si****]

The profiles that are real are usually extremely confused people, the rest are your typical romance scammer bs. It’s your typical dating app bullshit.

[UK****]

It really amazes me when I hear so many complaining about the site.  Yes, there are some scammers and some fake profiles; however, there are a lot of good kinky people here.

I suspect the issues people often have stem from their expectations of instant gratification.  Take time, get to know the real people as people, not kink dispensers.

[Deleted Member]

By far the most frustrating part of this app is that it puts the closest people to me behind a paywall.

[Do****]

I’ve got to know some fantastic people on here. Some I’ve met in person and some I’ve just chatted to. I also really enjoy the forum. Such a wide range of discussions. Not all that interest me but I can find something about anything I’m curious about. I enjoy getting involved in the new discussions too, finding out new things, getting to know some of the regular commenters. I don’t personally use the chat rooms as they feel a bit clicky to me. And I’m an app person so haven’t tried the groups yet but believe they’re extremely popular on the other websites in this group. I don’t like how much the guys complain on here though. There’s a lot of very negative men. The women seem relatively happy though.

[Do****]

6 hours ago, abs168 said:

I love using this app just for attention, practice, and education. I get to learn more about the kink community and find examples of what I like (: I’ve only met 1 person so far from here and it was fine; definitely not the app for dating. But I always hope that these apps will bring about my secret soulmate lol

Another positive girlie on here!

[No****]

I’ve made loads of friends off this site. Some who I’ve met in person. I’ve also had one hook up from here

[wa****]

Behind a paywall or they don’t respond at all! I know I’m not the best looking person. But Damm , you can at least tell me no thanks!

[De****]

10 outta 10 would not recommend. Too much is locked behind a paywall

[By****]

It’s a *** grab. Starting to see more fake profiles. Anyone Thats sexy hot or anything you have to pay to speak to them. So I think if people are popular then you will have to pay also. Weird site!! People come here post some pics few people drool over the pics then here comes snap, OF Links all that jazz. The thirst blows people heads up. Just be kosher chill treat it regular and it will all work out.

[Se****]

Talked to several people have never met anyone. I have certainly not had much success on here compared to just tinder or something.

[Deleted Member]

Yea I keep running into scammers.. or just weird and rude people… hasn’t been the best experience… I’m trying to give more time though…

[Deleted Member]

Met a woman on here, had our fun and now it’s just crickets. I rarely get on here anymore.

[De****]

9 hours ago, abs168 said:

I love using this app just for attention, practice, and education. I get to learn more about the kink community and find examples of what I like (: I’ve only met 1 person so far from here and it was fine; definitely not the app for dating. But I always hope that these apps will bring about my secret soulmate lol

You should try making it where you can be messaged if you really wanna meet your soul mate.
Lol

[Mi****]

Seems to be more of a m@ney making venture for the app developers than a way to meet people.

[lg****]

5 hours ago, UK_Knight said:

It really amazes me when I hear so many complaining about the site.  Yes, there are some scammers and some fake profiles; however, there are a lot of good kinky people here.

I suspect the issues people often have stem from their expectations of instant gratification.  Take time, get to know the real people as people, not kink dispensers.

It could be different for people depending on where they live. I try to engage people to try to get to know them but almost all of them wind up get asked by the app to verify.

[To****]

10 hours ago, JustFullSend said:

Honestly feel like they should a setting or a feature so where your swiping on profile it should be where it goes from most recently logged in and not where it’s almost all of them are over 3-6 months last login

That definitely should be a thing.

[To****]

7 hours ago, SexyNaomi said:

Lots of people using this to send nudes. I get a lot of folks too far away so I had to narrow down my filters and block the guys begging and begging for more and more pictures. And they just don't stop because all they do is jerk off all day.

Yes, I've seen that. Some of the messages women get up here are ridiculous. Like learn how to have a conversation without the cringe dirty talk.

[Th****]

I mean, like any online app, there's good and bad, but it's really what you make of it. I mean, I've seen some creeps, I've seen some decent people. It's honestly just nice having a place for the community

[sardonicus87]

7 hours ago, UK_Knight said:

It really amazes me when I hear so many complaining about the site.  Yes, there are some scammers and some fake profiles; however, there are a lot of good kinky people here.

I suspect the issues people often have stem from their expectations of instant gratification.  Take time, get to know the real people as people, not kink dispensers.

I have no expectations of instant gratification. When I say nobody wants IRL, I mean they explicitly say they never want IRL up front, they don't want to meet anyone new in the real world ever.
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I have less than 0 interest in internet-only friends, and that's like, almost everyone. Not that they don't want to meet up within 3 messages, they literally want to never meet ever period. That's half the problem.
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I don't expect instant, I expect EVENTUALLY if there's a click, but half don't even want e-friends, they just want e-attention.

[Ro****]

I wished that membership was cheaper or at least there was less functions that don't require it 😔

[Mu****]

I've only met a couple who are actually here for the purpose of this app. Starting conversations and it loses the concept. If I wanted vanilla, I'd be ok.with a regular dating site. That said, I have seen a lot of what I call "keyboard doms" and too eager to whip out the uninvited dick pics. It's entertaining enough tho.

[Deleted Member]

That’s a great question, and I think a lot of us feel that push and pull with apps like this. Like SinSear1 said, there's definitely a lot of 'typical dating app bullshit,' and my experience has definitely taught me to spot it pretty quickly. So much of what you see are people who are either confused, dishonest, or just looking for supply rather than genuine connection.

However, like UK_Knight mentioned, there are real people here too, and I think the key is to develop a strong sense of intuition and a very low tolerance for red flags. I've learned to pay close attention to inconsistencies, overly aggressive or demanding communication (even when it seems 'playful'), and anyone who tries to quickly shift blame or gaslight. Those are huge red flags, and they usually pop up early.

For me, it's about being discerning and protecting my peace. I go in with healthy skepticism, but I also leave space for the genuinely kinky, respectful people who are here for real connection. It's a journey of sifting through a lot of noise, but it's possible to find good.

[si****]

8 hours ago, UK_Knight said:

It really amazes me when I hear so many complaining about the site.  Yes, there are some scammers and some fake profiles; however, there are a lot of good kinky people here.

I suspect the issues people often have stem from their expectations of instant gratification.  Take time, get to know the real people as people, not kink dispensers.

If only people could be bothered to do that lol; the one guy who did that is my bf now so like men take noted women like being treated as people not objects!

[Ra****]

I've spoken to a lot of kinky people on here but I feel like so many don't read my profile or they say they want long term but then ghost me when they had their fun 😓 I wish this app was better and that people were willing to commit to something. I just want a kinky monogamous relationship with a daddy Dom but this app is full of one night stand dudes :(

[Cr****]

As all the other apps I'm on, I'm invisible. *sigh* guess I'll have to actually go where people are... lol