Overall opinion on this app?

[pa****]

Its not great at all, very unlikely to meet anyone, full of fake profiles and bots.

[Ad****]

Scammers, fake profiles, snap chat followers, prostitution, etc.

[8I****]

I’ve met two people from here and they were RUDE in person 😑 not going to give up but totally unexpected behavior from our community you know?

[sh****]

My opinion…. I’m on here to meet someone. Not to be spoken to like I’m a slut. Not every woman is on here to be degraded and I have found a lot of that. Fwb doesn’t mean I want to be spoken to like a POS. Just putting it out there. ❤️

[pa****]

Yesterday at 07:46 AM, pauld999 said:

Its not great at all, very unlikely to meet anyone, full of fake profiles and bots.

Just for clarity, i have never messaged anyone with demands or in a derogatory manner, every message i have sent is polite and welcoming, so its not just about the way people are messaged.

[Ph****]

I've never had luck on dating apps but I also dont think I do well on them or vibe with it. Just seeing an attractive person on here doesnt do much for me. Hard for me to get a real interest from profile alone.

Compound that with my zero experience with BDSM...not sure a lot will give me the time of day.

Has kept me interest longer than others so we'll see. I've only talked with one person and pretty sure they just ghosted when I wasn't into subbing.

[Do****]

I’m definitely here to form what will be a life long friendship or relationship depending how that goes because I know I’ll never find anyone with our tastes else where lol

[La****]

Yesterday at 06:21 AM, RainyKitten said:

I've spoken to a lot of kinky people on here but I feel like so many don't read my profile or they say they want long term but then ghost me when they had their fun 😓 I wish this app was better and that people were willing to commit to something. I just want a kinky monogamous relationship with a daddy Dom but this app is full of one night stand dudes :(

I felt this, I just want one man to cherish me while we explore each other/roles. I’ve only met men with anger issues disguised as “sadist or Dom” tht don’t read the profile an want to disrespect a woman for a night n send her off, most don’t even ask me to submit just assume ima want to do w.e they say. The rest will literally ask you what you want so they can pretend to be tht till they get off. Besides tht, there is no diversity. For every blk man there are 6-8 whites men an sadly I’m not into white men and it’s all I have in my inbox/ spanks. An option to filter based on interests would be a huge improvement

[BD****]

I love it here. 2nd week in. It’s Thanksgiving today for future readers. 2025. 😆 Never felt more at home. It’s not for everyone. But it is at the same time. Just be yourself. Respectful of others. Obviously. You’ll come out of that shell. And when you do, it’ll be Glorious!
-BDSMDC

[Fa****]

Seems like majority of the accounts are fake

[lo****]

Theres no filter for what you want to look for. Like it seems it'll happen by chance

[FE****]

16 minutes ago, looking4dirtyfun said:

Theres no filter for what you want to look for. Like it seems it'll happen by chance

The site has loads of filters, people often complain about confusion as there are too many!  What and where are you searching?

[lo****]

13 hours ago, FETMod-RG said:

The site has loads of filters, people often complain about confusion as there are too many!  What and where are you searching?

I can't filter or search tags specifically to help me find like minded kinksters near me. I am trying to find (of age and consenting) partners to be with to help take my fetish to the next level

[FE****]

1 hour ago, looking4dirtyfun said:

I can't filter or search tags specifically to help me find like minded kinksters near me. I am trying to find (of age and consenting) partners to be with to help take my fetish to the next level

What sort of tags do you mean?  A specific example may help.

[lo****]

8 hours ago, FETMod-RG said:

What sort of tags do you mean?  A specific example may help.

Bodily functions. I'll leave it at that

[FE****]

15 minutes ago, looking4dirtyfun said:

Bodily functions. I'll leave it at that

I suspect your needs would be better satisfied by putting up your own personal advert.

[BD****]

Be kind, and respectful. You’ll find someone. Never give up hope fam

[Deleted Member]

Wednesday at 06:21 AM, RainyKitten said:

I've spoken to a lot of kinky people on here but I feel like so many don't read my profile or they say they want long term but then ghost me when they had their fun 😓 I wish this app was better and that people were willing to commit to something. I just want a kinky monogamous relationship with a daddy Dom but this app is full of one night stand dudes :(

I totally get your frustration. It's exhausting when people say 'long term' and then treat you like a casual hookup. That feeling of being ghosted after they get what they want is the worst.

You're right, there are definitely people here just looking for quick fun, and honestly, there's nothing wrong with that if they're honest about it.

The real problem is the dishonest ones. They're the ones who lie about their intentions and waste our time. That’s why you absolutely have to be a little ruthless in your vetting. If you ask the tough, clarifying questions and they immediately disappear, that's your answer.

Don't be surprised. I find those types often hoover back around later when their other supply runs dry to see if your still an option for them. Stick to your boundaries and keep pushing for clarity, girl! 💪

[Lu****]

This was a great topic of discussion and for a newbie , it's exactly what I needed to read, so thank you!

[yo****]

It feels like at times its just an ego thing for women to feel good about theirselves, they can post anything and get hundreds of likes and tons of attention, whilst men dont seem to get the same sort of response.

[Deleted Member]

I’m not getting a whole lot of play. Could be my area is a small market. Send comments, no replies. Ran into a few scams. Idk long term.

[ob****]

I'm lost as a goose in a snowstorm

[li****]

It's good but should be free

[re****]

I met some one the first week

[st****]

Can't find no one on here who wants to actually wanna do stuff