Good vs. Unforgettable Dominance – What’s the Difference for You?

[mr****]

She told me I wasn’t her first Dom or her last. But I was her favorite.
That’s the ultimate compliment a sub can give a Dom.
I left a permanent stain on her brain.
Real dominance is the moment she realizes you’ve been three steps ahead, not because you planned it, but because you actually know her.
Good dominance checks the boxes.
Unforgettable dominance rewrites what she thought she wanted.
It’s the difference between giving her what she asks for and giving her what she didn’t know she was starving for.
Between making her submit and making her choose to surrender, over and over and over again.
Unforgettable Doms don’t perform it like a role.
They speak it like a language she’s been waiting her whole life to hear fluently.
Talk to me forum tell me what separates good from unforgettable for you?
What made someone unforgettable?

[PL****]

My best doms were the ones who really heard what ai said when I spoke. The ones that stood out the most listened, weighed in, took charge but made sure I was considered and didn't always think they knew best, because even though they knew me they understood I had an opinion and it mattered during my day to day. There were times that yes, they did figure out my needs when I didn't know or couldn't. He/she were the ones not because they could do this, but because it was simply a part of who they are as individuals and human beings that give the proper care a dom should. A good dom foolws their responsibilities as a dom. An unforgettable dom, doesn't just meet such responsibilities. They go above and beyond. A unforgettable dom is also a dom that hurts my heart when they leave but it's okay because what we had when we had it was magic. Whereas a good dom we can still be friends after and I am okay, but if not thats okay too. I have been lucky enough to have 1 unforgettable in my life. She is still in my life in a small capacity, and to this day if she came back I'd give my submission to her again and know she would still be unforgettable.

[Sq****]

Good Dom will fulfill their expectations and wants. An unforgettable Dom will fulfill the deeper level of things they've earned from you with trust and safety, those things the sub never thought they'd share for a variety of reasons. There's always a secret list for everyone, even if they haven't realized it fully. Sometimes it has to be uncovered with growth.

[wb****]

I agree with both PLEASEandTEASEme & SquirrelandWrangler; I’m going to take a different approach.
Yes I agree an unforgettable Dom will do more than bring out parts we didn’t know where there and help heal part of our soul.

An unforgettable dom can also be one who went the opposite way. Have you forgetting who you are, what your needs were, and then try to rebuild you the they want you to be. Sometimes it done in very subtle ways, a “I really don’t want to go out with … “ who happens to be your family, a close friend, a place to love to go. The dom doesn’t do it every time but often enough that you stop asking. Same thing with what you wear, how you do you hair, makeup, what you make for dinner. And without even being aware of you are no longer you.

So yeah an unforgettable Dom can be the most amazing human you have ever come in contact with, they can also be the worst.

[Bu****]

It’s been a long time…I can hardly remember 😭