Threesomes in LTR

[Deleted Member]

well, unless you make a threesome regular with the same folks, its hard to get jealous over people that are a one time thing. If its even possible to get jelly, you're not ready for a threesome

[re****]

She better be sure she wants this.

I’ve had two women I’ve been with that “were sure” and another casual. So there’s three LTRs where my woman “wanted” a threesome with another girl. Two of those GF had a particular friend they wanted to be the third. Both were friends that were single and “couldn’t find the right guy”.

The first one was an obvious flex by the gf. And trust me I never thought it was because I’m awesome. Because it was almost a shame session. And it ended up ruining the relationship because the friend loved it. Loved the whole thing. Was like a piece of meat for me but also was pseudo in love with my gf. How do I know? I dunno. You just know when you see it. It pervades the spaces where you’re not even sexual. Like.. they’re making Christmas cookies. And then the friend would comment or request.. as in Not many girls that can’t get a man suggest her friend and I fuck so she can watch and lick cum off her friend’s back or ass by request. Then the gf gets jealous.. of a girl I don’t want to f in the first place. SHE wanted me to.

Second gf was way more weird. Only understandable after one experiences it. And. It simply stated creates even more reason for insecurity. It’s a careful what she wished for scenario.

As many have said.. jealousy if it’s there will make the entire exercise a truly awful thing.

[L-****]

My experience has been varied. Generally always a nice surprise on my behalf. I've been lucky enough to be pushed into group activities. But I've always been willing. My last experience was with my partner where we had a group of friends over for a catch up and drinks. We were the last ones standing at the end of the night and the 3 of us were high. Our friends husband had gone to bed and we got into a tangent conversation on how being high and having sex was amazing. Our friends said it would be nice to suck a cock right now. We all laughed and I said I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind a wake up call. But she said no I mean your cock. She looked at my partner and asked if she would mind and it kicked off from there. Great night awkward breakfast though haha

[wo****]

All of this is making me want to bring an escort to a wife swapping freak off party.

[Ni****]

We still talk about it a year later and how fun it was

[br****]

December 9, peanut414 said:

Took me 17 yrs to get my wife to fuck another man but she finally agreed on a married male friend we'd known for years & he was with multiple different times
We've been married 30 years now
We've done the young man 18 to 30 yr old (her fantasy) & me waiting at home for her to get home
Now we're trying for the dark side & multiple males

What made her finally give in?

[en****]

Communication, and constant reassurance for either one that needs it. Your respect lies with you and your partner not who you include in that moment. Yes you can be kind and respectful to them too but at the end of the day your persons feelings are who’s that should be most important in that moment. Going over dos and don’ts that you’re both comfortable with before meeting up with the person. A good safe word or two or even eye contact during it helps eachother know if the other is okay and comfortable still in the situation.

[pe****]

I had a couple of male friends that were in our group that we hang around with & they're both married to women
I told them to hit on her & flirt with her discreetly
I continuously encouraged her to dress extremely provocative when we would go places
Basically turned her into a exhibitionist
I guess she got used to the attention occasional grope incidental rubbing & being discreetly fondled
She just came out & told me when we were playing pool
She wanted to fuck Larry
So I asked him if he was ready
Remember he'd been flirting with her for years

[pe****]

We left the pool hall & within 40 minutes he was balls deep in my wife

[pl****]

As long as I'm involved I find no jealousy indeed the opposite when the wife enjoys herself. But we've got almost eight years together. Secure in our relationship.

[Ke****]

Yes

[Si****]

Threesomes are awesome if everybody's equally as eager to please their partners as the others.

[Si****]

But they can be a little jacked too The chemistry is off with just one.

[ne****]

Have regular partners and if you ever catch feeling cut ties with them. Have multiple partners who you aren’t dating is a good way to keep the spark alive

[Su****]

Only had group hookups with my significant other in one relationship and it ruined what was left of us. I have since then been abstinent and single since.

[Deleted Member]

Things can get complicated when your giving better than she normally receives.

[Ma****]

I absolutely love that dynamic

[lo****]

The dynamic is amazing as my wife loves being center of attention

[Da****]

Two beautiful women and a man beat up the odds all day

[Fl****]

Thanks for asking this question as my partner and I are staring the LS. I have had jealousy issues, f@ar of abandonment, etc. I’m doing therapy and reading. Slowly getting there but damn it’s hard at times.

I appreciate everyone’s comments.