Popular Post Sn**** Posted 13 hours ago Popular Post How do you conquer the holiday woes? When loneliness becomes deafening. When words alone cannot satiate the desire to be touched, held, loved. Demisexuality is tough in a world filled with instant gratification and those who are addicted to it. So what do you do, when you want more?
Da**** Posted 9 hours ago I hear you and feel you. Sometimes we just need to offer ourselves extra self love rather than compromising with the window shoppers and tourists.
el**** Posted 9 hours ago Its a sad thing too have an addiction too intimacy when its only achieved through connection.
Ca**** Posted 9 hours ago That's when you take the time to deep dive into yourself become as intimate with yourself as you can be as possible that way you can teach your next lover how to do it properly
Sk**** Posted 8 hours ago I felt this so hard.... Literally was just talking about this exact thing with my bestfriend... it's super hard especially when you need connection for intimacy & casual hook ups Literally don't cut it. It's why I enjoyed having a female sub when I did. It fulfilled both our needs even while being single still in persuit of my own permanent Dominant Male Partner
Tw**** Posted 8 hours ago Keep your ear to the ground. You'll find that person one day. Just don't stop searching.
me**** Posted 8 hours ago I guess I can’t relate. I love my own company. I have strong bonds with family and friends. I have never relied on a man (not even my own father), and I’ve embraced life being single. I love the peace being alone brings for me. Now everyone is different. I’m just saying for me I enjoy the holidays because I am not lonely. Plus I have 2 dogs who are 100x more loyal than any man will ever be. Maybe my answer is get a dog. Maybe 2 lol
Vanillaface Posted 8 hours ago Sorry to hear about the holiday woes. Have you got friends? Can I assume your work is fun? No mate would ever want to have anything to do with someone who feels sorry for themselves (too much anyway). I speak from personal experience… I’m the same as you, but I’m just so excited about life. Maybe men and women live differently but my epiphany came when I was in bed once with a clingy woman and I just had to get up and go and sleep in the sofa. She would scream and shout “baby” non stop and then dragged me to back to bed. Never again haha
John31 Posted 8 hours ago Try to forget. Knowing that it takes a while for me to connect with people, and knowing that most people don't want to wait until I become comfortable with them, I tend to stop putting in as much effort as I once did. I've needed to learn that loneliness doesn't last. The desire for something more will fade with sleep, if only for a little while. I try to remind myself that the vast majority of people go through life alone. It's actually pretty rare for people to find themselves a partner they connect with. I've just got to keep myself distracted with my hobbies.
AKA_Copper Posted 7 hours ago I create i life i love outside of kink. People on the internet are flaky, they talk the talk but dont walk the walk, they suggest a social meet but 99% bail. If you create a life that keeps you occupied in things you enjoy, with people you enjoy being around, then it's manageable. Sometimes the itch itches but, I never allow it or others to distract me by allowing it to disrupt my peace or interrupt my life - if a dates been set for a meet, I always have a back up plan so it doesn't affect my mood and is nothing more than disappointment.
Re**** Posted 7 hours ago I politely disagree with TwistedTreat69. I'd recommend standing up tall over putting your ear to the ground. You'll be seen and heard better as sound waves travel better through air than dirt or sand. As for instant gratification, this has been the norm for quiteg shome time. Look at it as a filter protecting you from shallow, disposable-minded, selfish souls. And when you want more? Well that's a great opportunity to pause, think and realize YOU are enough just the way you are. That although you may WANT more, you don't NEED more. For reasons stated above. And if you don't want to believe me, at least consider believing Mick Jagger, lead singer of arguably the most iconic, and unarguably the most long-standing bands, of all time.
Daddybrains Posted 4 hours ago Focus on what you control. Stay self-aware and maintain your boundaries. Pamper yourself. Start a project that keeps your head busy. If it gets overwhelming, find a support hotline and call or chat there. Holidays are tough for so many of us. You’re not alone in this feeling. You must power through it, in whatever way you can.
sardonicus87 Posted 2 hours ago Shit, I would kill just to have literally anyone real to hang out with IRL, as even casual acquaintances (no touching, sex or even friendship). I don't even have that. . I want more than that, but I can't even get that. I do everything I can, on all the websites for all the things (every hobby I have), go to all the munches, go to a café 6 days a week for several hours (they're only open 6 days a week) and even a stanger in line won't acknowledge my presence, say hello and they look at me like I have leprosy, like "ew, why the hell would you talk to someone in person?" And it's not like I have poor hygiene or dress stupidly. . Nobody will get off their fn phones in public, never given a chance, nobody shares my hobbies or interests, everyone's cold and standoffish. . So what I do? Everything for nothing, and I'm about to give up, it's just not worth the massive effort.
si**** Posted 2 hours ago No joke you take it over kill the reason n make your own kingdom then concore all
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