Switch issues??

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I’m relatively new to the community, but I’ve found myself in a conflicted place right now.

Originally, I was 100% a pleasure dom; gleefully toying and loving my partners. But more recently, I’ve found myself having an intense desire to be a sub. The one time I was given that chance, it was amazing to me, but I’m feeling conflicted now.

I still enjoy domming, but don’t desire it. When things get steamy, my first desire is now to be a bottom; with a disappointment present when I have to dom, but which dissipates once I start play.

I guess what I’m asking is, does anyone else struggle with this kind of emotional conflict as a switch? So few people are willing to take my fantasies into consideration when I mention that I’m a switch, instead either leaving the conversation or insisting on their preference when I bring it up. I don’t really think it’s a whole lot to ask for, but it feels impossible to find that itch scratched currently.

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U are not “switching “ u r actually experiencing 50% of each and u like both , i only can advice you if u have a partner that used to see u as a dom then dont switch as a sub with her other wise u will lose her , its better to give each partner the right match energy , so find another partner “ if u r in poly relationship “ that want to dom and u can be sub , partner 1 u are dom with and partner 2 u are sub with . U can stay like this until u start to tend more to one side