Sub Rules

[Se****]

Interested to see other sub rules; these are my last sub’s rules. All were open to negotiation prior to being adopted.

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My rules and tasks

General rules

1. I must wear my symbol of ownership at all times (necklace/bracelet/anklet).
2. I will make my body available for Sir to use, and act as his sexual plaything. 
3. I must use WhatsApp to keep in contact with Sir and receive tasks. If I am going to unavailable for an extended period, I should inform Sir how long I will be out of contact for.
4. I will learn to worship and crave his cock, relishing every opportunity to please him.
5. I will keep my pussy and ass smooth and hair free for Sir’s viewing pleasure.
6. I will practice anal training until I can take Sir’s cock with ease. 
7. I will inform Sir via WhatsApp of any orgasms I have without him and tell him what I fantasised about.
8. I will continually look for ways to demonstrate my submission to Sir.
9. I will always tell Sir if I am anxious or upset and why.
10. I will share any concerns, worries and stresses, and be open and express my feelings and concerns to Sir.
11. I will use safe words as necessary and without *** or anxiety, knowing that Sir has my best interests at heart and that I will NEVER be punished for this.

 
Daily tasks

1. I will send Sir a “Good morning” message when I wake up.
2. I will send Sir a “Good night” message before I go to sleep.
3. I will drink at least 2 litres of water every day.
4. I will send Sir at least one selfie every day. Sir will always appreciate extra selfies.
5. I will set aside quiet time to recite my affirmations.


Weekly tasks

1. I will message Sir a short fantasy I’d like us to try.
2. I will send Sir an underwear and/or erotic selfie.

Rules for play sessions

1. I will refer to Sir as such at all times.
2. I will ask Sir for permission before I have an orgasm.
3. My phone must remain out of sight at all times.
4. I will massage Sir’s body on request.
5. I will endeavour to improve my sexual skills in alignment with Sir’s desires to better serve and delight him.
6. My mouth, pussy and ass belong to Sir. I give him full permission to use my holes as he sees fit.
7. On entering Sir’s presence, and unless instructed otherwise, I will undress, place my clothes in a tidy pile and kneel awaiting Sir’s pleasure.
8. After each play session I will write a journal listing out what I enjoyed the most.

I understand that failure to comply with these rules and tasks will result in punishment and re-training. Punishment will depend on the severity of the infraction.

[Deleted Member]

Those are really well thought out

[Deleted Member]

It’s really insightful to see these. I think they’re very reasonable and sound like they serve your preferred dynamic well. But this also helps solidify for me that, while there’s nothing difficult about your rules, I think I would do better in a slightly less structured dynamic. Thank you for sharing!

[Th****]

I like how you put in place to talk about worries and anxieties. As a sub who also struggles with major anxiety, that would be much appreciated. Just wanted to point that out 🥰

[mo****]

I wouldn't expect this kind of dynamic out of a new relationship. Probably something I feel like I could much more easily expect from a relationship as many years long as there are items on those lists combined lol

[mo****]

1 minute ago, moonpet said:

I wouldn't expect this kind of dynamic out of a new relationship. Probably something I feel like I could much more easily expect from a relationship as many years long as there are items on those lists combined lol

And expletives lol .. also is this for a long distance relationship?

[chefhands]

Can you share some examples of punishment, and retraining?

[Se****]

Interesting lists and food for thought.

Couple of questions, curiosity as opposed to seeming like an attack:

1/ what did the sub get in return? You talk about training to improve sexual skill to “delight you” did you also attempt to improve your sexual prowess? Likewise talk of the sub discussing fe@rs/anxieties with you, did you do the same? Or journaling their favourite parts of a play session, did you discuss your favourite parts so that the sub understood what went well from your point of view?

2/ have I understood correctly that permission was only required for orgasms during play sessions but not when your sub was alone?

Whilst I am very much taken by the structure and routine of these rules it also leaves me questioning what you gave in return, what conditions you met, what expectations your sub had of you and did you agree to them? Did you communicate, was there an onus on you to inform when you would be unavailable for communication or contact etc?

[my****]

3 hours ago, SerendipitousKeeper said:

Interesting lists and food for thought.

Couple of questions, curiosity as opposed to seeming like an attack:

1/ what did the sub get in return? You talk about training to improve sexual skill to “delight you” did you also attempt to improve your sexual prowess? Likewise talk of the sub discussing fe@rs/anxieties with you, did you do the same? Or journaling their favourite parts of a play session, did you discuss your favourite parts so that the sub understood what went well from your point of view?

2/ have I understood correctly that permission was only required for orgasms during play sessions but not when your sub was alone?

Whilst I am very much taken by the structure and routine of these rules it also leaves me questioning what you gave in return, what conditions you met, what expectations your sub had of you and did you agree to them? Did you communicate, was there an onus on you to inform when you would be unavailable for communication or contact etc?

The journaling their favorite parts is a cheat code to identify places the Dom can focus on to please the sub, without piercing the veil of confidence. There are actually a few rules in there that will help him figure out what she likes.

[On****]

Well done 👏 I think it's important for readers to understand this is a beautiful structure you AND your sub have created together that fits your dynamic. A few comments ask about varying rules, tasks or punishment but these variables would depend on needs, desires negociated between the sub and Dom/Master for your specific dynamic and some may work or not work in your dynamic. There may be a need for differences in rules or tasks relating to long distance relationships, polyromantic or enm open relationships and these rules would be specific, created, adjusted and agreed to by both partners as what works for them. Again to the op congrats and thank you for sharing, I wish you and you sub the very best and well done to you both! Cheers 🥂 14R

[ChastitySub4Use]

I have been a sub for most of the last 40 years and sm currently with a new albeit inexperienced Mistress. The rules she has set me are not like those above, in fact quite different. She is only here three days a week because she works away and also has a 4 month old to deal with too (bump). However my rules are as follows based on whether she is here or not:

If Mistress is here:

1) Do all bumps feeds including nightimes, change his nappies etc
2) Make her a cup of tea when she wakes up
3) cook her breakfast
4) wash, dry and iron her and bumps clothes including hand washing her delicates
5) at weekend cook lunch and tea on saturday, take her out to resturant on sundays
6) hoover, dust and clean house including thorough clean of bathroom
7) Give her a massage daily
8) give her an orgasm every night before she goes to sleep using my tongue or fingers
9) Let her have full control of what we we watch on TV
10) remain in my chastity cage permanently other than for when it is removed for cleaning
11) Only have an orgasm when she permits it (this is based on a points system she has)
12) Pay for all her travel costs, new clothes, shoes and perfume etc

If Mistress is not here than most of above still applies where applicable but in addition:

13) send Mistress good morning message
14) Ask permission to P and if necessary do web call of me P'ing
15) Send her pics of every meal I have
16) Ask what clothes she wants me to wear each day
17) Call or message her to say goodnight

There are also bonus tasks such as washing her car, running her candle lit baths, taking her out shopping etc that earn extra points.

In addition she gives me points for each task I complete to her satisfaction and if I earn enough points she will allow me an orgasm. However she has set the target to such a high level that at current rate it will be approx one year before I can have an orgasm - ok slight exaggeration but it feels like it LOL

Edited January 7 by ChastitySub4Use