Photos

Status

Not single

Open relationship with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 50
Status Not single
Height 165cm
Weight 66kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Zodiac sign Libra
Glasses
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages German
English

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Hi,
I'm easy going, emotionally mature, fun and even sometimes funny.
I prefer ongoing friendships with great benefits, that have to potential become deeper connections.
Exploring my pleasure dom side right now, but also really enjoy some good French vanilla. 😉
I love to try new things, both inside and outside the bedroom.

My roles & archetype

My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Portland with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

chefhands
icon-wio chefhands has uploaded a new photo
  • 08.09.2026 14:52:06
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
  • chefhands
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands is in an open relationship
  • 12.08.2026 14:18:51
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands is no longer single
  • 12.08.2026 14:18:40
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands has bought a VIP-membership!
  • 22.07.2026 14:42:01
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands has uploaded new photos
  • 16.04.2026 14:28:49
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
  • chefhands
  • chefhands
chefhands
chefhands entered a new photo into the KINK COMMUNICATION 101 contest
  • 20.03.2026 20:54:07
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
  • chefhands
chefhands
chefhands entered a new photo into the SUB ENERGY contest
  • 15.02.2026 19:47:27
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
  • chefhands
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
Thoughts of your body
I woke up thinking about your body. Those soft natural and beasts had me in an erotic tailspin last night. Thoughts of what they might feel like in my hands. Caressing them. Fingers gliding all over your skin. Feeling their mass, their weight, their shape. Molding your flesh to my fingers as I Read more…squeeze them gently, then a little harder.
A little pinch of the nipple, a slight gasp as your body recognizes the sensation. Then treating them tenderly with my lips, tounge and mouth. My intent becoming clearer and clearer with every touch and every nibble. Finally with our bodies and breath in sink as we give into our mutual desire....
LikeReneeSki, click_clack_52, Sexy_Secretaryand 11 more…
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands has uploaded a new photo
  • 12.01.2026 1:56:46
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
  • chefhands
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands wrote something in the forum
  • 07.01.2026 2:34:19
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
Sub Rules

Can you share some examples of punishment, and retraining?

chefhands
icon-wio chefhands has updated their profile description
  • 05.01.2026 16:08:19
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
Hi,
I'm easy going, emotionally mature, fun and even sometimes funny.
I prefer ongoing friendships with great benefits, that have to potential become deeper connections.
Exploring my pleasure dom side right now, but also really enjoy some good French vanilla. 😉
I love to try new things, both inside Read more… and outside the bedroom.
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands likes PDX Sanctuary
  • 29.12.2025 15:15:17
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
Bookstore first date
After some really hot texting and some witty banter they decided to meet at bookstore. The sexual tension was already thick, they both knew what they wanted and could not wait to see if their chemistry was real.
They had coffee and laughed, looked into eachothers eyes, flirted, and took every Read more…opportunity they could to touch, and got to know eachother a little more.
They found themselves is a quiet space, less crowded than the rest of the store. That is when he made his move.
Moving behind her he grabbed her hips and pulled her close to him. She could feel his bulge pressing into her. He whispers into her ear, "you are so fucking hot, I can't wait to be inside you"
She could feel herself getting wet as he kissed her cheek, and down her neck. She opens herself to him, leaning into him and tilting her head to one side, reaching up and back to touch him.
Wrapping his strong arms around her and pressing his hard hard cock against her. Squeezeing her close to him. Both their temperatures rising by the second.
They wanted more...
His hands exploring now....sliding up her shirt, feeling her soft skin. She loved the feel of him. Touching her tender belly and sensitive sides, finding her breast. Gently over her nippls as they perk up.
She could feel him totally stiff now as she pushed her backside into him. She wanted that cock, and he wanted her to have it.
One hand cupping her breast the other making it's way down her body. And into her pants.
She was already soaking wet down there.
It could happen.
LikeWestmelbkinksta, click_clack_52, Sexy_Secretaryand 32 more… · 3 Replies
FloridaSunandGun
FloridaSunandGun Love it Love it
Like · 28.12.2025 5:31:31
Daddiejhay
Daddiejhay Hmm... Beautiful Hmm... Beautiful
Like · 28.12.2025 2:19:50
blkafterdark
blkafterdark Hot 🥵 Hot 🥵
Like · 28.12.2025 2:19:16
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands wrote something in the forum
  • 28.12.2025 0:34:15
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
Question

Masculinity is as much a mindset as a physical attribute. How you represent yourself has nothing to do with how many push ups you can do.
If I was 6 feet tall, I may appear more masculine, but if I cant take the lead, what does it matter.
If I can dead lift 300# but cant articulate my emotions, Read more… Im strong, but not masculine.

LikeBr3tt, BoneCollector, SassySexyLover · Jump to discussion
chefhands
icon-wio chefhands has uploaded a new photo
  • 02.12.2025 8:38:33
  • Male (50)
  • Portland
  • Not single
  • chefhands

Members close by

  • sRiley

    sRiley

  • Thisguy-4681

    Thisguy-4681

  • JustAGuy2025

    JustAGuy2025

  • Peggedfootboy

    Peggedfootboy

  • Sassyquanch

    Sassyquanch

  • antne

    antne

  • Hypnofox

    Hypnofox

  • Apologieaccount

    Apologieaccount

  • Jbryce4

    Jbryce4