Collaring.

[pb30185]

Looking for some advice. 

How long into a d/s relationship would you allow before the mistress talks about having a collaring ceremony? 

[SillySissyNikki]

I dont think there is a guidline time for this, only that you will both will have to be ready, some D/s relationships go years without this and some in days. If you are both into it and are comfortable then you are probably already ready

[BigPolly]

It really is an individual choice. I played often with one Dom who always promised to collar me but never did & I’ve also played with Doms who wouldn’t play without collaring me first so that we both knew our roles clearly. However /whenever you are collared it is still one of the best feelings ever 😊

[ey****]

relationships are different.  I mean, think like a marriage - some people propose early in their relationship, some take a few years.  A lot depends how you both see things in the future.

[Deleted Member]

Only you guys will know when it's right to do it.

It's also worth remembering that a collar can be anything you wish as long as you both agree. I permanently wear a silver chain with a ring on it as its nice and discreet 

[Charms]

i had my collar for mine an my doms 1st anniversary. wed talked about it on an of for a while. was presented with 1 for it. but also i was given a neckless with a lamb on it. i get lamb or sheep things of my dom . started as joke but as carried on. my silver chain is my every day collar. no 1 but a few kink freinds now what it stands for. it doesnt matter as ling as ny dom and i know. it only ever comes of when master puts on my collar for play time