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Vetting process for littles and caregivers


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BrattylittleBitch
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I really like this post, as someone quite new to exploring my little kinks, I don’t feel like enough time is given to discussing anything other than the daddy’s desires so far.. for me the aftercare is a very very important part that I don’t feel gets enough focus sometimes.

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Very well written. Vetting is a long process but very worth it in the long run to make sure you have a happy and healthy relationship that lasts.

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1 hour ago, ***iekittypatti said:

As a new Little. I thank you!

You're welcome Patti 🙂

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Thanks for the advice i am new to the daddy scene and i have fell foul to most of the bad points you mentioned but seeing the simple check list makes me realise is not me i only didn't ask the right questions

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2 hours ago, Crazydiamond said:

Thanks for the advice i am new to the daddy scene and i have fell foul to most of the bad points you mentioned but seeing the simple check list makes me realise is not me i only didn't ask the right questions

We are all constantly learning, I'm glad you found it helpful and wish you well for your future relationships 

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Ahhhh!! Love this!!!! This should be standard in the LS no matter someone’s role 💖

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4 hours ago, kaycie said:

Ahhhh!! Love this!!!! This should be standard in the LS no matter someone’s role 💖

A lot of things should be which sadly aren't... but hopefully that will change if enough of us are persistent enough. Thank you Kaycie 😊

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That’s really great advice, I don’t have a daddy yet. Hopefully, very soon. Your exactly right about watching for red flags. if a potential daddy comes off as too interested then I feel like he’s just a guy looking to beat on girls legitimately.

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3 hours ago, DoLLsDeviL said:

I love this I have been targeted a lot

I'm so sorry to hear that... I hope that changes for you in the future and that you are okay now

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1 hour ago, JCMeow said:

Thanks for this.

You're very welcome, I hope it was helpful 

  • 2 months later...
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Thank you, I've just experienced a online DDLG relationship and I thought it was all going well, unfortunately I got burned, now upon reading this I can see that there were a whole lot of red flags, I will not make the same mistake in the future

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1 hour ago, DeltaD said:

Thank you, I've just experienced a online DDLG relationship and I thought it was all going well, unfortunately I got burned, now upon reading this I can see that there were a whole lot of red flags, I will not make the same mistake in the future

I'm so sorry to hear that. It happens all too often 😔 I hope you are okay and can move forward confidently now. Stay safe.

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1 hour ago, Aranhis said:

I'm so sorry to hear that. It happens all too often 😔 I hope you are okay and can move forward confidently now. Stay safe.

I'll be fine, it was my first ever experience as a Daddy to a little and hopefully not my last

  • 1 month later...
KitsSpitfire
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I must of gotten pretty lucky with mine cause reading this I see/saw no red flags with my current Daddy. He is my first Daddy ever and I have no idea nor does he how we ended up in this relationship. He made me discover that I was a Middle/brat and we have a lot in common. We actually were talking for a year prior to him Domming me 3weeks ago. And me being the smart ass that I am, I put my foot in my mouth and said yes to a collar after the 2 week trial. We talk several times a day on the phone we do when he is off work, he gives me tasks to do and I send him a video or picture of the task that I have completed. We plan on meeting in august for a week after I get my second vaccine and he might be moving here in April.

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13 hours ago, KitsSpitfire said:

I must of gotten pretty lucky with mine cause reading this I see/saw no red flags with my current Daddy. He is my first Daddy ever and I have no idea nor does he how we ended up in this relationship. He made me discover that I was a Middle/brat and we have a lot in common. We actually were talking for a year prior to him Domming me 3weeks ago. And me being the smart ass that I am, I put my foot in my mouth and said yes to a collar after the 2 week trial. We talk several times a day on the phone we do when he is off work, he gives me tasks to do and I send him a video or picture of the task that I have completed. We plan on meeting in august for a week after I get my second vaccine and he might be moving here in April.

That's wonderful news! It really puts a smile on my face to hear positive stories 😊

 

I wish you both all the very best.

  • 5 months later...
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How do you find a littles and caregivers group ? I’m new to all this and thought it might be nice to talk to others
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11 hours ago, curiousitybunni said:

How do you find a littles and caregivers group ? I’m new to all this and thought it might be nice to talk to others

I'd initially suggest looking at social media platforms such as FB, there are a wealth of communities for littles and CGs on there. Obviously you need to be careful and there are invariably many would-be predators who try to sneak into said groups and take advantage, but a great many of them are actually run by littles themselves and have strict policies in place to keep members as safe as possible in such an environment - they won't tolerate poor behaviour. I hope you find what you're looking for 😊

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Discord is another option, although I am personally unfamiliar with it. Several of the admins and moderators from the groups you might find through Facebook also operate their own Discord groups for learning and socialising on. Just always remember to be safe and careful. Enjoy!

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