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Mjunky

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My husband and I have started experimenting with some sex toys, and he ordered a bed restraint system and we went to the adult store and got a dildo and other fun things. My question is this: he wants me to tie him up and be the slave. I am normally the one who gets tied up. I have 2 kids under 5, so I know how to be an alpha when necessary, but not really with my husband. I need advice on what sort of things to say when he's tired up.  It doesn't come naturally to me to be ***ful with him..it feels awkward.  I need a script to at least memorize so when I get him tied down I can have SOMETHING to say to get him off... please help!!

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Hi, in the forum there is a section dedicated to stories members write and post. Maybe that would be a great place to start, as there are some crackers there which may help guide you in the direction you seek 😊

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Ask him to show of the videos or stories that he likes to give you an idea of what to say, everyone has slightly different things & if he can show what he likes specifically then you can base your words around that ?

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Ask him to show of the videos or stories that he likes to give you an idea of what to say, everyone has slightly different things & if he can show what he likes specifically then you can base your words around that

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Not knowing him or you, it's impossible to tell you what to say its entirely likely we don't share kinks or find the same things arousing.

Role-playing might be a way to go if you find yourself feeling awkward, easier if you're playing a part..and you may well enjoy it, @Primal***has made an excellent suggestion, perhaps get your husband to read a few and find out which float his boat and come up with a scenario around those things, or, read some yourself and go with what makes you tingle, he'll Definitely have a better experience if you're enjoying yourself.

If it becomes something you'd like to do more often, you'll fall into your Domme style quite easily, IF its inside you, you can't *** Dominance though, be honest with him if you're not feeling it.

 

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