WHAT HOLDS ME BACK

[Te****]

Also being single doesn’t help lol 😂

[Ji****]

Being single and no female friends with benefits lmao. Us men have it the worse honestly.

[re****]

Just can’t find anyone.

[Bi****]

Hard to find someone kinky and safe

[ca****]

My taste level

[Ji****]

I've never found somebody as kinky as me they talk a big game but when it comes down to it in the bedroom or it gets close to it they punk out f**k if it feels good do it and I mean do it often

[wo****]

I have always wanted to be dominated in some ways, but I don’t know clubs, or anything near me. I have been looking online, but that’s proven to be about *** more than anything else, although I have had a few large legit accounts on social approach me (25k followers and larger). The distance is killing those chances. I don’t mind traveling to an extent, I’m flying to Denver in a few weeks. I want to be flogged, and vac bagged/bed/caged preferably in the presence of a latex nun.
It would be my first time doing it, but I’m loyal and fiendishly eager to learn.

[pe****]

I like wild random spontaneous unplanned and risky sex

[pr****]

Invites or/and a partner

[Ju****]

A partner and where to start. Ive never been allowed to explore kinks (chronicly single all my life, and sociallyautistic so i dont understand or know how to initiate: flirting/dating/ hookups or even an appropriate conversation tbh)

[dl****]

A willing and able victim

[be****]

*** and a partner

[Pl****]

No connection to others in the lifestyle. It's easy to chat on a forum, but had to connect IRL, especially as a single 55-year-old man

[Re****]

*** and access. You meet people on here or other platforms but for some reason irl meetings never happen. It's like people prefer fantasy over real life.

[Ja****]

I answered this question German Version days ago...and now i thing or guess....
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Im too mutch and cant Change that.
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Greatings from Germany 👋

[DisguisedAngel]

*** of having another emotionally unavailable Daddy

[cr****]

Definitely meeting someone and it becoming real life. So many fake it over the different platforms but then go ghost.

[Te****]

I’m finding it hard to meet new people and friends and struggling worth acceptance within the industry I was a sacrificial lamb

[Sl****]

What’s keeping me from trying something that I crave is that far too many people are keeping themselves from trying to reach out.
So many blocks on here and I get it - but when many do finally get their profiles in order they then freeze rather than reach out.
Communication is essential to broach any subject, even friendships. Someone has to make a move but then when it happens there’s no “thanks / no thanks.”
We can all make things more palatable by being gracious. Kindness is another form of making ourselves approachable. Try it.
But it could make things awkward.
That’s when you express boundaries.
Or use the block feature.
It’s amazing how many of us return here and hope to simply chat but no one starts it.
Learn to accept and give compliments and say things that don’t start in the gutter.
Empathize and express far beyond one line messages. Treat people like they’re everyday friends. Share things about yourself rather than asking questions all the time.
Everyone can make this better as long as we all give more regarding what we want.
Until that happens we’re finding ourselves still hiding in a place that was supposed to be built on celebrating who we are and what we want.

[Ma****]

I think for me it's *** of rejection because my fetish is so unique and different I have a fetish for matches having them struck underneath my wiener

[Li****]

For me it is that all guys just want sex and no marriage or relationship

[ja****]

Literally just having somebody to do it with. I think that's one of the differences between male and female experiences with websites like this and FetLife is that a man has to find not only a partner but one that wants to try something a woman just has to think of something she wants to try and someone will appear

[ja****]

19 minutes ago, Lisa_S said:

For me it is that all guys just want sex and no marriage or relationship

I don't think that's true, I think the difference is that unlike women men have to work for sex so they're more interested in getting some. You can get late whenever you want so you can kind of put it aside. It's like food you live at the grocery store so you can't imagine why that homeless guy is more interested in food than he is at reading a book

[Za****]

ACCESS, i haven't talked with a lot of people here, even though i'm trying

[vi****]

Willing participants. 😂