Does it work for a switch to be pigeonholed into either a dom or sub role?

[Ta****]

I’m a switch and I find myself extremely excited by being submissive to a nurturing and loving mother figure. At times, I do want her acting aggressively too and pushing me outside of the limitations I have been held to. But, I want that dominance to only occur inside the bedroom. Outside the bedroom, I am Daddy and I need my Princess that I can care for and she’s all about needing me in every way. My princess will likely need to be a switch too, right?

Can a switch truly be happy if they are made to be in one role and one role only?

[Ni****]

As a switch myself - no I’m not happy if I’m ***d into one role. I need both

[Mongrel]

Thats an interesting question! Although I have no experience with that sort of thing, it sounds hot to kind of transition into the other role within the concept of your relationshp - like your princess being bratty and dominant and pushing you. Mind I ask, as I'm a switch too - do you lean more into one side of your spectrum or is it quite equal? For example, in the past I've been let's say 80/20 sub/dom. As of recent, it seem to become more equal...

[ey****]

sometimes it is ultimately down to finding the person right for you.

But also - there's a lot of people where they are in a relationship with a primary partner with dedicated roles, but, play with others on whatever basis to satisfy the other side of them

[li****]

Could you please define what you exactly mean by your partner needing you outside of the bedroom? Cause depending on what you do it could be argued that's also a form of submission on your part.