Kink on the 1st Date?

[ChocolateRopeBunny]

For me no and there probably wouldn't be a second date

[Ra****]

My real question is what are we grading as kink? What level of kink is too far on a first date?

[Go****]

sexual level no, even kissing, but flirt and talk about kink at the end why not

[cu****]

Do an actual scene, absolutely not. What we do is dangerous and people hide who they truly are behind a device. It takes time to properly vet someone and also make sure they know enough about your triggers and aftercare requirements to be safe about it. I have hooked up with some elements of kink on a first date but only after being able to suss the vibes during the date. Having the date doesnt guarantee that I would mess around that day.

[xl****]

To build on my response before. This is also what I’m looking for. If someone is willing to make fantasies happen (hooking up with a stranger is mine) then they are a pleaser and should be treated like gold