Sexuality confusion 🤔

[Moon-8288]

Way to wrap up the topic for me I listen to a bunch of advice here and I decided to overwork my profile in general. Specific to the topic I actually added to the profile that I'm hetero but that I'm down to give trans men a chance as long as they kept some of the feminine character traits and kept the female genitalia
And crow sorry but I think it's better if I spare both parties the time of fruitless attempt. Yeah it's not overly polite but it's honest, straight, efficient and not overly rude. People offended by that level of honesty wouldn't want to hang out with me anyways xD

[An****]

Idk why we have to have a label on everything. According to society i fall under the trans umbrella. Im a mtf crossdresser basically. I live my daily life as a dude. Most weekends as a female. Aside from here im on a few other dating apps. A majority of people that message me are "heterosexual " men. They all seem to want to fulfill some fantasy involving my hidden equipment. I think maybe you could be developing some gay tendencies? Up until a few years ago the very thought of being with a guy grossed me out. Now I almost exclusively date guys.

[on****]

3 hours ago, Moon-8288 said:

Way to wrap up the topic for me I listen to a bunch of advice here and I decided to overwork my profile in general. Specific to the topic I actually added to the profile that I'm hetero but that I'm down to give trans men a chance as long as they kept some of the feminine character traits and kept the female genitalia
And crow sorry but I think it's better if I spare both parties the time of fruitless attempt. Yeah it's not overly polite but it's honest, straight, efficient and not overly rude. People offended by that level of honesty wouldn't want to hang out with me anyways xD

Fair enough.

That said, when dealing with trans people I’d be careful in what I call “feminine” or “female,” if your goal is clarity.

If you mean a penis, I’d say so. If you mean a vagina I’d say that.

“Feminine” and “female” are words that are applied to many people who happen to have penises.

Trans women are female. And often feminine. Some cismen are feminine.

I’m masculine and identify male and have a vagina. That body part does not make me either female or feminine. And I’d be disinclined to date anyone who said so.

[Sp****]

You're allowed to have a genital preference. Most trans people dont have a problem with that. It's when you start TREATING people as their genitals that it starts becoming a problem. Trans men are men and being attracted to them does change things. But, if you're only attracted to them because they have a pussy, that's weird as hell.

[Moon-8288]

Yeah no but again as I said I was talking to the one other trans men and they had still a bit of a feminine charm to them from the way they act type I don't know I don't think I could date giga Chad xD