Questions

[Deleted Member]

Hi? I’m new here and has some questions.

1. Does exploring your kinky side encourage or stop the fantasies?

2. What are signs that you have found the person that you are willing to explore with?

3. Is it weird to explore all kinks for learning purposes, at least one time?

[Jo****]

1-probably varies individually, but theres nothing wrong with discovering that trying one kink unlocks a whole slew of things. Theres also nothing wrong with going “im only trying this then im good”
2-you’ll feel safe enough to be *** with them and put your personal safety in their hands; or be able to take the responsibility of their safety being in your hands.
3-nope, nothing wrong with sampling everything at the buffet. Just dont treat people like kink-dispensers along the way.

[Deleted Member]

Thank you.
No plans on treating people like dispensers to be honest I really am just looking for a teacher. To try everything like before I deep dive into the kinky waters.

[Al****]

Go to a demo day

[ey****]

1) depends on if the fantasies live up to your expectations or not

2) that you trust them enough - mind, if you are exploring it doesn't have to be exclusively with one person providing everyone knows the score, i.e. you can go to a fetish party and try something with someone you feel is trustworthy without entering a relationship with them

3) It's not weird. But not necessary.  There'll be things you like the idea of and things less sure of, focus on what you like the idea of.  Remember of course you will need to do some form of research before trying anything, either side of the slash 

[sp****]

Virgos.. ((wink))👋🏿

[Br****]

As someone who has been In this lifestyle for over a decade:
1) trust me the fantasies don't stop lol once you fulfill some you'll get more and more.
2) They make you feel safe and secure. You feel comfortable with them and you trust them to listen when no means no and stop means stop. Both parties safety is the priority and as long as you both know that you'll know when the right person comes.
3) No not at all, I do think alot of people have fantasies or kinks that they feel will always just stay a fantasy but it's not weird to want to try all of yours. I have explored alot of my own kinks and even some I wasn't necessarily interested in mostly out of curiosity and like you said learning purposes.

[DK****]

1) Its up to YOU and your comfortability and finding a partner who matches it but you also help one another push the boundaries. Also know one another's hard and soft limits. Do you want someone with more experience to help guide you or do you want someone on your level? Communication is key!

2) Again that is your call. The more you feel a connection with someone the more you'll want to explore. Trust is everything.

3) It doesnt matter what others think is weird. Exploration will help you discover what you do and dont like.