SMALL ACTS OF SERVICE

[br****]

From making tea to putting on a collar — what does service mean to you?

[be****]

listening attentively to mistress and following her command to see her fulfilled and satisfied makes me happy to serve

[Deleted Member]

Doing the will of the dominant with good intentions and clear understanding, not just for your own pleasure, but her’s primarily.

[th****]

Making me in the master happy

[Bu****]

Doing what he says how he says when he says. Following the rules. Being what ever he needs me to be.. putting his needs before my own.

[su****]

It is all about her. Being devoted to their will and showing it. Obeying, listening, and having nearly every aspect of my day filled with thoughts on how best to please her

[ic****]

Giving the master what they want when they want it.

[Lu****]

exchange.
providing something in return of something maybe.
its not one-sided as it seems at first glance…
thats why preferences and limits exists..
so its always a win-win

[cl****]

It means ro serve, period. Whatever is desired of u, service is to serve. However, the recipient needs to make sure the server enjoys it, which means they want to serve.

[st****]

Knowing their habits that keep them from caring for self. So cooking when I know he's too into building something. Bringing him something to drink while he's drawing knowing he is going to forget

[su****]

to me, service is doing things for the one i serve and obey that will make life easier. such as domestic service, even little things like taking out the garbage, doing the dishes, making sure the Superior had beverages and snacks while i tend to the chores…

[au****]

Service is a state of mind. It is putting the needs of another before your own. It is trusting that by serving, your own needs will also be met.

[Ba****]

Wait so according to most replies so far “service” seems to be either near blind obedience or a lot of the things a sub does intentionally and primarily for the dom that would be called “care” when a dom does equivalent things primarily for the sub??

[Pe****]

Consideration and forethought. Yes, "zoning out" can be very relaxing and restorative, but that goes both ways! If I need to tell a submissive what to do--not initially, I'm speaking of repetitive instruction/correction that should be unecessary--it puts the entire burden of presence and direction on me full-time. Yes, submissives should be cherished/valued/guided (depending on your dynamic flavor), but Dominants are not an endless font, either. Good power exchange is remaining aware of the burden from *both* sides, even when consciously and consentually acting otherwise. ;)

[JB50]

It’s about being available. I don’t need continuous service. When I do need it however, or want it. I want the peace of mind knowing that someone who is devoted to me is ready and willing to take care of anything I ask them to do.

[ow****]

service to this sub
is being present when the dom needs you
it’s being willing to give your body or energy to the task

it’s about trust and sort of giving in
if there isn’t trust it’s hard to serve
being collared isn’t just ownership
it shows how willing that person who’s submitting is willing to go
that’s how i see it anyways

[m-****]

It's about a level of devotion and submission that goes beyond the 'normal' bounds of a relationship. It's about being observant, anticipating needs, taking pride in being good and deserving of praise. It's about letting go of my own responsibilities, allowing them to take control of those, and in exchange only focusing on what they want and need. It's being freed from the stress of the larger world and willingly handing over free will with the trust that they will make sure I am okay (and in fact more fulfilled) once I have to return.

[wi****]

Service means devoting yourself to their needs and getting pleasure out of doing anything they need

[Ta****]

I love to cook to my people. Eat well is the best kind of service in my opinion

[si****]

We take soooo much for granted. It's little things, sometimes not noticeable, not even acknowledgement; simple touch, appreciation even if not verbalized

[al****]

Service is the manifestation of the desire to please.

[Gy****]

Its the small things and the attention to details that show something is important enough to take care/notice of

[dr****]

Service is what ever makes my life easier and to serve is to know so if you can anticipate what I need or want that makes it even better put the toothpaste on tooth brush if you know that will ease my day. 💕

[Ra****]

Service to me means doing what ever I can to make my Dominants day a bit easier. Anything like domestic duties such as washing dishes to picking up dry cleaning, making their coffee. Making sure I know their needs and anticipate them as well. Whatever they want really as long as it pleases them. I enjoy doing things from a place of service because I genuinely enjoy it.

[Al****]

Doing anything to make my life easier and to make me happy. Taking me out on the town, out to eat, shopping, sightseeing, or simply sitting at the beach.