To be Collared

[pr****]

...forgive my writing skills, composition was the only collage coarse I failed even with trying my best. Ive had these thoughts circle in my head constantly and wish to put them out to the ether.


I long to feel someone to place their marking on me. Whether it be tattoo, branding, or what resonates with me the most, their collar. A symbol of what we have, a connection the masses will never feel. They can keep their wedding rings, half of them won't keep their vows anyways. There's just something different about a bdsm relationship. Maybe its from discovering that side of the internet at such a young age, but bdsm always felt right.

A connection formed though not only love, but respect, education, and of course a little teasing. The sub and dom having such respect for each other, for one knows one cannot exists without the other. Their education of not only what they are doing, but of each other, knowing the ins and outs of what each other wants. Creating systems of communication others won't pick up on. Then there's the teasing... as a brat I love the teasing, both receiving and dishing out. Knowing that their words are more then empty threats, and that your words have consequences.

Then there's the feeling of belonging to someone, but not in a fucked up abusive way. In a way that makes you feel safe. Touching your collar and feeling your owner's comfort wrapping around you. Knowing they want the best for you, helping in ways others cant see. Not feeling like they will just leave...

The love is necessary for any relationship, but it feels so different in a bdsm relationship. I wont say its stronger or better, just different. Its a bond that ***s you to look deeper into each other.

Communication is also incredibly important any relationship, this I will stand by saying, it is typically better in bdsm relationships. You know what your dominant wants just based on a phrase or signal. In return you know your dominant will truly listen your feelings and won't just get upset when you do...
Communication is mandatory in scene, knowing where each other is, what's working, and if anything is too much, physically or mentally. You and your dom pick up each other's tone better then most. You can pick up when something is off even if its just something small.

These are honestly only some of the reasons I wish to be collared so bad. But I wont just let anyone do it... it means so fucking much to myself that I need to feel that connection, trust, and respect for my dominant and want them to feel that for me as well. I currently self collar to try to focus on myself. Learn my own likes and dislikes, and have enough respect for myself to love and care for my mind and body. The collar brings me comfort, but also a little bit of sadness being its not someone else's. Alas I will be a good girl, be patient, and work towards what I want, because I wish to hold up my side of the deal.

[Ma****]

I remember collaring my 18 year old girlfriend many years ago. Epic moment

[Fi****]

Nothing like the feeling of being collared. It is an honor, a sexual pleasure, an excitement a bond and a sense of protection. I knew he chose me and I accepted the most important position in his life. To be the one whom he could be his true and unfettered self with. The raw and best version of Him. I saw a side always that no one else had the privilege or power of seeing. He in return got the same of me. The bonds we create are sacred and precious more so than a marriage. There is no pretense, pressure or obligation. We just are… because this is the lifestyle we belong and are our true selves in.

[gr****]

This is beautiful. I’d like to steal or share it