Fl**** Posted February 28 I am a firm believer in the idea "birds of a feather, flock together". That whether immediately or eventually. Those we surround ourselves with tug on the way we interact with the world and the way we do or wish to present ourselves. This is most definitely true with hobbies, beliefs, aesthetic, etc. Im some cases i've found this extends to kink as well. Old friends of mine would insinuate dungeons and play toward eachother when I was a tot (they were mid-late 20s and I was a mid ***ager at the time) it flew over my head as a kid. But now I find myself in similar spaces they were nearly a decade ago. Im curious friends. Have the people youve associated with had an impact on your kinky nature? Did they teach you things you may want to do? What kind of person youd like to do it with?
De**** Posted March 1 Not really... I'm a bottom. They do things to me that id like to try. I usually talk or interact with everyone and not clicky. I'm a social butterfly đŚ
We**** Posted March 1 I began âhookingâ up with like minded folks back in the AOL chat room days. Laying the groundwork and related dialogue. One thing lead to another like munches, kink parties, then private play sessions. Seemed like there was always something going on between chatting and get togethers.
wb**** Posted March 1 I inadvertently found a few groups of people who have one or more kinks. I didnât go looking they just kinda showed up.
Mi**** Posted March 1 My best friends are my best friends because they are less judgmental than most people and have a dark, dirty sense of humor and they aren't ashamed of things most other people would try to shame others for and they are just very authentic people. I think we feel most comfortable with people who are similar to us and therefore we end up surrounding ourselves with like minded individuals. And this is also why I judge people for the company they keep. If someone had a close friend with questionable characteristics, I assume that person is comfortable with them for a reason. For example, if someone's close friend gets outted as a pedo sex trafficker, there's a good chance that person is also pedo
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