As a totally self spanker, at the moment, I challenge my self to go longer and harder with tougher implements. I start slow, over clothes such as shorts or even jeans. I build up to the "runner's high" where endorphins kick in (chem. similar to heroin) I have a whole set of antique hairbrushes Read more… (OUCH!), dog collars to use as straps, those "Board of Education" paddles you can get at tourist shops, antique paddles signed! It turns me on to shop in antique stores !!!

hey! my wife isn't into spanking. she tries but can't stop laughing. I'm not into anything but spanking, no nipple clamps, whipping (on back), bondage unless part of spanking. don't know anyone with same fetish, would get like to chat and share ...