sl**** Posted March 3 Im,a sub and have a Mistress we haven't met and that's why I'm asking this question.its been about 6 months since she became my Mistress we have set up times to be in a dungeon but everytime it gets close to that day⁰ it gets canceled this slut wants to play,,hypothetically speaking if iplayed with another Mistress us that cheating?
pa**** Posted March 3 No, the first one is stringing you along. Meet a new one and then say goodbye to one who keeps cancelling you.
pa**** Posted March 3 Have you been given instructions one way or another? Communication is the key at all times
Scottishdombull Posted March 3 Is it a valid reason on why she keeps on cancelling or is it bullshit. Having said that you better should say that you are disatisfied that play dates keep on getting cancelled and if it happens again then reluctantly you be finding a new mistress who would take an active part of your training
Ki**** Posted March 3 8 minutes ago, paul_a58 said: No, the first one is stringing you along. Meet a new one and then say goodbye to one who keeps cancelling you. Agreed
mr**** Posted March 3 I personally think the mistress angle would be really useful to a scammer doin a romance scam. think about it it’s just a romance scam. but your going into it with the idea that they already have control in the relationship. Has *** been brought up or changed hands for anything at all???
sq**** Posted March 3 Tell her she wasted 6 months of your life. Meet the second. And move on down the road.
Ka**** Posted March 3 It depends on what are you two doing here. Is this person your domme 24/7? Then, it will be better not to ask here bit to ask directly to your domme what todo or not. If you are just the sub while “playing” you do what you want. 🤞🏽 good luck
Dr**** Posted March 3 If you have agreed to be owned by her and exclusive to her than yes it's cheating. Be honest and tell her since she isn't seeing you in person you can't commit to being exclusive to her.
Wh**** Posted March 3 If you haven't met, all agreements are null and void. You're free until you meet her and make it official. She might be real, she might be fake, but she's certainly not giving you the dynamic you signed up for. Also, could be a scammer. There are a lot of those on here.
Strang Posted March 3 If you're paying for that dungeon and it keeps getting cancelled with no refund then you're being scammed
Zis Posted March 3 Greetings from a femdom! It is cheating, if you meet another dom while you are in a dynamic and you said, you wont serve anyone else. If you are not satisfied with that dynamic then just leave it, but dont drop your own ethical standards. That's not worth it from my point of view.
Ul**** Posted March 3 I hate to be the one to say it, but it looks like you're being scammed. I have never heard of a dungeon that doesn't give refunds or offers another date if they are the ones who are cancelling. (They often don't offer a refund if you're the one cancelling, especially if its short notice) The other issue is you state you're in a dom/sub relationship and have been for 6 months and still haven't met. I would say that's an indicator to cut your losses and move on. Next time, arrange to meet the person first, just something casual, a coffee or something. That will give you a chance to find out if the person is right for you, allow you today out your wants, needs, and limits. It will also allow the other person to tell you the same. If you both click, then move on to the next level. As others have pointed out, there are plenty of scammers out there, and they do like to prey on people from all walks of life.
ni**** Posted March 3 I’d say she’s fully waisting your time. I can actually put you in contact with a legit mistress if you’re interested. She’s a very close friend of mine and we’ve actually dommed together before.
CuriousRose Posted March 3 1 hour ago, mnemonicon said: am i wrong in thinking this cancelling of plans is part of her dominance ? I still think there needs to be proper communication and respect. If someone continues to keep canceling plans over and over it really isn’t worth it. It never feels good to have that happen. Might as well let the person go and find someone committed to what you want
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