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HOW I SET MY BOUNDARIES


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When it’s my boundaries i‘m quite flexible i just mention it when it comes up

And for the ones of my partner is basically just getting to know them
So mostly conversation, to sort things into „1)yes 2)no 3)maybe“, and a bit of experimentation to figure out „3)“

Well, that's where it comes to me.The boundaries are discussed pretty early respect.My boundaries or you're out of here there are two types of boundaries that I have strike boundaries which I call.I tell you a total of four times you are gone.And then one shot boundaries, where basically, if I have to tell you one time, then you're out of here

I agree boundaries can be placed out right but also as the relationship blossoms. I had not boudries and allowed everything within a monogamous relationship and as far as kink goes

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Tinigurl

Clear, up front, and backed by a can of bear spray, because there's too many creeps out there 😜

Setting a new boundary… (other than ones previously agreed-upon) has caused me some nervousness and hesitation in the past. I wait for what seems like a good time (sooner than later so it doesn’t fester)… ask permission to speak freely about “something that is important to me”… and then proceed to discuss it in as respectful of way as possible, choosing my words very carefully

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Communication is how u set them and respecting others boundaries

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