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Gender Man
Age 43
Status Single
Height 184cm
Weight 96kg
Hair length
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Zodiac sign Virgo

About me

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Are you a strong, confident Woman who enjoys taking the lead and is looking for a fun and obedient sub? … if so, then you just clicked on the right profile 😉

I am a loyal, devoted and obedient submissive for the right Woman. I value emotional availability, communication, self-awareness and emotional maturity and accountability… in myself as well as in a Dominant

If you are someone who leads with calm strength but a firm hand… are a sadist but has a loving caring heart.. values growth… understands that submission is something earned through patience, trust and integrity… and are looking to build a real connection, well then we might just click


Turn offs… lying, cheating, arrogance, cold and emotionless Doms

My roles & archetype

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  • Male (43)
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  • 17.07.2026 15:27:06
  • Male (43)
  • Ava
  • Single
Are you a strong, confident Woman who enjoys taking the lead and is looking for a fun and obedient sub? … if so, then you just clicked on the right profile 😉

I am a loyal, devoted and obedient submissive for the right Woman. I value emotional availability, communication, self-awareness and Read more… emotional maturity and accountability… in myself as well as in a Dominant

If you are someone who leads with calm strength but a firm hand… are a sadist but has a loving caring heart.. values growth… understands that submission is something earned through patience, trust and integrity… and are looking to build a real connection, well then we might just click


Turn offs… lying, cheating, arrogance, cold and emotionless Doms
bornTOserve
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  • 08.07.2026 16:29:16
  • Male (43)
  • Ava
  • Single
what qualities makes you devote yourself completely to a confident FemDom?

Strength in her leadership and being humble about it and not arrogant.

Being human 😂… by that I mean that she has weaknesses and vulnerabilities just like the rest of us and I don’t like when a Dom hides behind that Dom persona, never allowing me to really get to know her on a deeper level as she Read more… essentially dehumanizes herself.

And practices what she preaches, not just expecting it out of me. Things like self-awareness, growth, honesty, respect, etc. All these things need to be a two-way street

bornTOserve
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  • 08.07.2026 16:17:08
  • Male (43)
  • Ava
  • Single
Is the Vibe Changing? The rise of ghosting, ***-requests, and profile turnover (even for paid accounts)

:1783516485,7148578, I tried that method of asking for a pic with them doing something specific & it turned out to be AI generated. AI is ruining online dating & connections.

I’ve done the custom selfie before… but yes, don’t Read more… trust it anymore since proving one was AI of requesting her to “pinch her nose“ in the pic 😂

It’s pretty bad out there nowadays, on this app and others. A lot worse on alt.

Unfortunately we just have to watch our backs. I never send ***, don’t even give out my phone number or anything else more personal until I’ve met someone in person. Always talk on secure apps like Signal if taking the conversation elsewhere

Catfishers and AI profiles definitely have noticeable traits in their pics, bios and messages. I just try to keep an eye out for those and stair clear of them

bornTOserve
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  • 08.07.2026 15:59:33
  • Male (43)
  • Ava
  • Single
Service Sub task online

You could make him do chores around his own house, requiring before and after pics to test and work on his discipline and work ethic (as well as requiring him to send you updates of the work he has to do on his own and check in once each task is completed, at work or at home). I had a Dom make me Read more… clean my kitchen the first day we started talking 😂. I really appreciated her doing that and was very eager to prove how disciplined I am. She kind of gave up on the chores thing after a couple weeks though after I approved my work ethic was far beyond her expectations 😂

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  • 21.05.2026 2:29:35
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  • 21.05.2026 1:07:52
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  • Single
HOW I SET MY BOUNDARIES

Setting a new boundary… (other than ones previously agreed-upon) has caused me some nervousness and hesitation in the past. I wait for what seems like a good time (sooner than later so it doesn’t fester)… ask permission to speak freely about “something that is important to me”… and then proceed to Read more… discuss it in as respectful of way as possible, choosing my words very carefully

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  • 21.02.2026 23:48:42
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  • 21.02.2026 23:28:18
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  • 21.02.2026 23:10:51
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  • Ava
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WELL TRAINED SUB (divorced single dad), looking for a new DOM to SERVE and PLEASE.

Not selfishly looking for a "kink dispenser"
😂. You are superior and your needs come first. MY JOB is to SERVE YOU and PLEASE YOU... to make YOU FEEL like the GODDESS that YOU ARE, every second of every Read more… day.

Ultimately looking for a meaningful FLR with a STRONG and CONFIDENT WOMAN, with similar interests, that can actually love and appreciate the great things a selfless and well behaved submissive man has to offer, of course while keeping me in my rightful place... worshiping, appreciating, admiring and serving... which will only help me be a better me, the real me.

This is more than just a kink for me, this is me. More than ever lately I am working on accepting and being "the real me", not just in the bedroom but being a better beta and submissive in day-to-day life, trying to focus on and be proud of the great things someone like me can offer a Goddess instead of focusing on the things I can't. There's always cuckolding if my "great things" are ever not enough in a relationship 😳🥺

I work, I have my own business, make a comfortable enough living. I’m happy to spoil my goddess as much as I can, but I can’t be your pay pig

I like boating, camping, hiking, live music, playing bass guitar, tv, movies, history, documentaries, dining, travel, cooking, tourist attractions, and up for anything that sounds fun. Especially like taking an interest in a partner's interests and trying new things
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