Are you a strong, confident Woman who enjoys taking the lead and is looking for a fun and obedient sub? … if so, then you just clicked on the right profile 😉
I am a loyal, devoted and obedient submissive for the right Woman. I value emotional availability, communication, self-awareness and emotional maturity and accountability… in myself as well as in a Dominant
If you are someone who leads with calm strength but a firm hand… are a sadist but has a loving caring heart.. values growth… understands that submission is something earned through patience, trust and integrity… and are looking to build a real connection, well then we might just click
Turn offs… lying, cheating, arrogance, cold and emotionless Doms
Strength in her leadership and being humble about it and not arrogant.
Being human 😂… by that I mean that she has weaknesses and vulnerabilities just like the rest of us and I don’t like when a Dom hides behind that Dom persona, never allowing me to really get to know her on a deeper level as she Read more… essentially dehumanizes herself.
And practices what she preaches, not just expecting it out of me. Things like self-awareness, growth, honesty, respect, etc. All these things need to be a two-way street
:1783516485,7148578, I tried that method of asking for a pic with them doing something specific & it turned out to be AI generated. AI is ruining online dating & connections.
I’ve done the custom selfie before… but yes, don’t Read more… trust it anymore since proving one was AI of requesting her to “pinch her nose“ in the pic 😂
It’s pretty bad out there nowadays, on this app and others. A lot worse on alt.
Unfortunately we just have to watch our backs. I never send ***, don’t even give out my phone number or anything else more personal until I’ve met someone in person. Always talk on secure apps like Signal if taking the conversation elsewhere
Catfishers and AI profiles definitely have noticeable traits in their pics, bios and messages. I just try to keep an eye out for those and stair clear of them
You could make him do chores around his own house, requiring before and after pics to test and work on his discipline and work ethic (as well as requiring him to send you updates of the work he has to do on his own and check in once each task is completed, at work or at home). I had a Dom make me Read more… clean my kitchen the first day we started talking 😂. I really appreciated her doing that and was very eager to prove how disciplined I am. She kind of gave up on the chores thing after a couple weeks though after I approved my work ethic was far beyond her expectations 😂
Setting a new boundary… (other than ones previously agreed-upon) has caused me some nervousness and hesitation in the past. I wait for what seems like a good time (sooner than later so it doesn’t fester)… ask permission to speak freely about “something that is important to me”… and then proceed to Read more… discuss it in as respectful of way as possible, choosing my words very carefully