Think of a scene as a passage from a book, write in the third person. Some of the best scenes written are about control, think how you would like to control your sub, this will give you a good idea of her responses, write the whole scene down and send it to your sub, get their input, then plan it Read more… for a weekend away, or at least without interruption, the anticipation of a kinky scene will build and make the finale earth shattering

Not political,or # anything. None of it gives anybody the right to interfere in somebody else’s relationship where there is no physical or mental. ***.

Society has nothing to do with it. Socially all the men have been marrying young women for 100 years.
It’s only in recent years when media thinks it has the right to drive societies norms. The problem is people have a perceived right to interfere and they do not have the right.

I’m sorry, but that’s absolute media driven nonsense, you do not have the right to step in on any relationship if that relationship is neither abusive physically or mentally.
I know primal submissive on here that would lay most of the dominance out cold, and for that matter some of the brats too

:1781229645,6428319, I don't think it has anything to do with mental age as it does with physical capability. The idea of a woman, grown or otherwise, forcing a younger (legal age) guy is asinine in society's eye. However, a man forcing a young (legal age) girl is seen as her Read more… being too weak to defend herself against his advances. That, mixed with the maturity that she brings, is easy to see as *** and not consent.

What if the younger female has chased the older male?. This is where you have to be careful about preconceived morality. The relationship between between two people people as long as it is not abusive both mentally and physically has every right to exist, whether that is older, male, and and young female, or older female and younger male.
More and more younger females between the age of 18 and 28 are seeking older males. This is where I pointed out earlier in the thread where the media is steering people’s moral compass, without the knowledge of that dynamic/relationship.
None of us has the right to interfere in a relationship/dynamic that is not abusive either mentally or physically, or pass judgement on the people in that relationship.
The opening context of this thread, was a grandfather took his granddaughter out to lunch, and people were passing comment without knowing what the relationship was between them. This level of moral high ground behaviour should be a lesson to all of us, if it’s not abusive either mentally or physically than that relationship is none of our business morally or otherwise 

35 to 45

Stats show that Married males between 35 to 40, will use subdefuge to have sex outside of their marriage

Perhaps it’s because an older man is a safer option, as far to many 35 to 45 year old males are just looking for sex not a relationship, and they hide this

My 2 Cents........
if you are a younger female that likes/prefers older men, then as long as you are consenting, and the relationship is not abusive (physically or emotionally), then that relationship has every right to exist. We are part of a community that lives outside the norms of society in Read more… general, yet we have to conduct ourselves in relative secret, unless it's a media entertainment for the rest of society to masturbate over.
You are who you are, and your life has little to do with others outside yours, life is to be enjoyed and celebrated, not crushed to fit the square peg of social norms.

People are generally disappointing, they have preconceived moral compass that is steered by the media. They see themselves as having the right to pass comment on anyone/couple that falls outside this compass., "your a ***phile" , "your a predator" , ect. they do this without the knowledge of that Read more… dynamic/relationship, eg. the author of this subject being out to dinner with his granddaughter.
A simple meal out is turned into something lude and perverted by people with no clue, just the supposed right to comment.
I was told by a 36 year old female on this site, that I (a dominant with more than 30 years experience) should leave the site and go to a dating site for the over 50s, as this site is for young people. It's this type of media driven trash talk that people think they have a right to comment on anyone male or female about their morality not lining up with the morality of the general norm.