Alcohol in Play

[DD****]

Heavy drink yes tom, lol no one likes a sloppy drunk that can’t perform, so you do you just don’t project on to others. Some of us don’t have a drinking problem we’re pretty good at it.

[Bo****]

One of my partners only liked back door events after drinking. It was completely unenjoyable when sober. We got a breathalyzer and stayed around 0.02 bac on such nights. Im a firm believer that everything can be done safely, but not all safety is equal, some are on a razors edge and need to be handled as such

[Qu****]

One thing that hasn't been brought up, drinking will thin out ***. That means impact, rope, needle play, or anything that can cause bruises can all be affected. Also with fire play it's going to cause the fire to sit deeper on the skin which will increase the risk for burns.

[Deleted Member]

I love it

[Sa****]

3 hours ago, Quixote_69 said:

One thing that hasn't been brought up, drinking will thin out ***. That means impact, rope, needle play, or anything that can cause bruises can all be affected. Also with fire play it's going to cause the fire to sit deeper on the skin which will increase the risk for burns.

Very good point!

[Deleted Member]

Wednesday at 09:13 AM, Little_brat38 said:

In the UK if anyone has had a drink of alcohol, you can't then do anything as it's considered R@pe. On either partner.

Literally not true

[de****]

We drink a little bit when we go to the ranch but we don't get completely blasted. Usually its a drink or two then we both switch to N/A.

[We****]

From uk - but I think it depends how drunk we are talking and also what kinks. Breath or any impact play etc I’d say no more than 1 drink anything else then depends on how you know your partner and what kinks you are implying to play etc. I think us from the uk have more to drink day to day than other places that’s just my opinion what makes it more normal to us. But safety is always most important and knowing your drink limits and when to say no all have contributing factors on if it’s safe to do so or not for the individuals involved

[ey****]

On 3/18/2026 at 9:13 AM, Little_brat38 said:

In the UK if anyone has had a drink of alcohol, you can't then do anything as it's considered R@pe. On either partner.

Not strictly true.

It would be very difficult to get a conviction down that route.  However, of course, the person on the receiving end and others around them may take a dim view if there's belief someone knowingly took advantage of someone under the influence. And even then there'd be those tried to defend it :/ 

There have been a few cases I've followed where the lady said it was not consensual and only happened because she was drunk - but evidence was pulled up including things like previous rapport with the person. And while many outside would say, yes that was wrong - the court is unlikely to return a majority guilty if there's previous rapport. 

[Im****]

Alcohol to me in light quantities I mean not even a buzz tbh. Anything of an intoxicating nature can impair judgement, causing failed reads and all that. I've seen it impair in quite harmful ways such as too tight ropes, forgetfulness such as a call answered and a poor woman left tied up, and other assorted bad shit in general.

[pu****]

Could be erotic. Might be an improvement. Depends on the circumstance.

[ne****]

*** and alcohol blur the lines of consent. Probably safer to abstain altogether in those circumstances