What do you think? pt.2 Profiles

[Ni****]

Hi lovely people,

I’ve got another question I’ve been considering and I’d love to hear your thoughts.

What actually attracts you to someone’s profile?

For me, it’s rarely the pictures — that’s usually the last thing I look at. I’m much more drawn to what someone writes. Their bio, their interests, limits, what they’re looking for, even their test results. It gives me a sense of who they are and, more importantly, whether there’s something there to connect with or even just start a conversation from.

I often find profiles with little to no bio, or just “message me if you’re interested,” don’t really draw me in. It makes me wonder what kind of conversation would follow if there’s nothing to engage with to begin with.

So I’m really curious — what is it that catches your attention when you look at someone’s profile, and why?

Is it photos, writing, energy, or something else entirely?

As always, feel free to reply with your thoughts down below  <3

[vi****]

For me to be interested, you must first be interesting. Whether it’s charisma, character, opportunity, resources, etc.

Gotta be way more interesting in your propositions & solicitations than “Hey, hru” or “you’re so beautiful” because, honestly? That does nothing for me.

And saying something like “just ask” - that puts the onus on me to find something interesting to ask you? Hard pass.

[Do****]

Yeah I totally get that, for me the person has to be interesting like a sense of personality, rather then send nudes first. I see a lot of people that have dull bios because they’re shy or don’t know what to write but are fantastic people.

But also mainly people that can also hold a conversation or start one 🙏🏼

[Si****]

50 minutes ago, violetsoblue said:

For me to be interested, you must first be interesting. Whether it’s charisma, character, opportunity, resources, etc.

Gotta be way more interesting in your propositions & solicitations than “Hey, hru” or “you’re so beautiful” because, honestly? That does nothing for me.

And saying something like “just ask” - that puts the onus on me to find something interesting to ask you? Hard pass.

Yes exactly this!

[57****]

Hmmm. Never thought of that. I definitely read the intro..and say something more then "hey" or "what's up" pictures occasionally