Munch Notes/Agenda – Analtastic – 15th April 2021

[PixieDust]

Munch Notes/Agenda – Analtastic – 15th April 2021

 

Host:  @Bounty 

Content Contributors:  @PixieDust @lil-monster @Psuedom @ChromeDom   

 

Welcome everyone to tonight’s munch to celebrate Anal April, the sites’ theme of the month where we are looking at the world of Anal Play.

 

1.  How would a first timer start off with Anal Play? What recommendations would you give someone?

• Research, get to know your anatomy - anal sphincter is approximately two inches deep from top to bottom (discomfort is likely if any insertion does not complete the distance)
• Discuss with your partner, good communication
• Warm shower, wash anal area thoroughly
• Douching, have a good clean out
• Start off exploring with a tongue or finger
• Work your way up with different size of Butt plugs sizes over a period of time, start off small and work your way up  to larger sizes
• Use of muscle relaxing lubes
• Breathing
• Use of clit stimulation to enhance enjoyment
• Safe words
• Ironically, “pushing out” helps during insertion.  This allows the sphincter to envelop and comfortably accept an object, rather than resisting by being pushed in a direction it is less evolved for whilst remaining in a naturally airtight state (tight)
• Ultra-thin objects will encourage the anus to contract too far and are likely to cause irritation.

 

2.  How do you douche? What are the best tools to use for the job?

• Purchase a good douching kit from a reputable toy supplier – douche with bulbous end is well suited - pointed conical tip should be avoided.
• Warm water
• Relax

 

3. How do you avoid dreaded accidents? And what’s the best way to handle it if you do have one?

• Try to avoid eating certain foods, rich, greasy for example
• Accidents can and do happen, try not to make a big deal about it – This includes urination, especially in the case of men when targeting the prostate as it sits on the bladder.

 

***When indulging in Anal Play lube will be your best friend*** 

 

4.  What do you think some of the best types of lube to use during Anal Play?

• Water based lubes
• Oil based lubes (remember if lube is silicone based do not use with silicone toys- material degrading can occur)
• Coconut oil

 

5.  What are some of the biggest mistakes people make when undertaking Anal Play?

• No Lube – or just simply not enough lube is used, or lube dries out mid use, remember lube, lube and more lube
• Using larger toys straight off
• Not adequately douching
• Not discussing with partner first
• Not making sure fingers are clean, short filed nails, so they do not cause nicks to inside the anus.  Make sure nails are cleaned under surface too
• Not using toys that have a base, aka possibility of losing toy - choosing inappropriately designed toys, eg, plugs are unlikely to stay in if head to neck ratio is any less than 5 to 3, or potentially completely inserted if the base isn’t wide enough (definitely more than 2/3rds of an inch, preferably at least 1 inch wider than the neck)
• Not removing jewellery
• Over enthusiasm
• Not being familiar with the sensation of it themselves… like opinions, everybody has one, so “do onto others…”
• Using objects not fit for purpose; brittle and easy to items like vegetables & open topped bottles that create a vacuum –don’t do this!

 

6.  What are the dangers to Anal Play and how can they be avoided?

• Ripping anus
• Losing toys in Anal canal and an embarrassing trip to Emergency for retrieval

 

7.  What are some big No, No’s in Anal Play?

• Double dipping - vagina to anus and back again – Hygiene – to avoid nasty infections
• Using things that have sharp edges
• Using things that can be lost

 

8.  When it comes to health and well being what wellness checks should we be doing when it comes to Anal Play?

• Regular checks for STI’s and STD’s
• Use of Condoms/Latex gloves for some activities
• Prostate Checks
• Consider birth control – still possible to get pregnant
• Haemorrhoids (Piles – technically we all have these, but any bleeding at stage one should be seen as an indication that anal play is unsuitable and is likely to cause further inflammation and progression through the remaining 3 stages)
• Perianal cysts/abscess – ABSOLUTELY DO NOT ENGAGE IN ANAL PLAY.  Anal cysts/abscess form due to infection; if burst infection is likely to become more severe and may cause a fistula. Fistula that forms from perianal abscess is superficial. Fistula that forms from perirectal abscess is deep and can track through the different layers of the pelvic floor muscle and anal sphincter muscle complex.
• Anal fissures tear or open sore (ulcer) that develops in the large intestine, near the anus.

 

9.  What other types of Anal toys can you use in Anal Play?

• Butt plugs of vary sizes  including wifi app plugs
• Dildos
• Strapons
• Anal Hooks
• Anal beads
• Vibrators
• Expanding Anal plugs

 

10.  When choosing Anal Toys, which is better, Silicone, vs Metal vs Glass? 

 

11.  What is the attraction to Anal Play? Does it differ between a male and a woman?

• Stimulating prostate for men to intensify orgasm

 

12.  Does a woman experience the same intensity of orgasm from just Anal Play? Or is clit, vaginal stimulation required equally?

• Clit stimulation can enhance the experience

 

13.  Anal play doesn’t just have to be about fingers, tongues and plugs, many enjoy indulging in Strap-on play.  What do you think you would need in your kit for Strap-on play?

• Adjustable Harness
• Strap on Harness
• Underwear type Harness
• Various types of Dildos that are made for a Harness
• Good supply of lube

 

14.  What makes strap-on play fun?

• Being Dominated anally
• Base of dildo can press up against the pubic mound or clitoris providing additional stimulation
• The ability to go deeper
• Prostate stimulation

 

15.  How to do you go about talking to your partner if you would like to try Anal Play?

• Adhere to the 4 Pillars – Communication, Honesty, Trust, Respect.
• Not sure how to broach the subject- consider magazine articles and bringing them up in discussion – example: I read an interesting article – what do you think about it? Is this something you have ever considered trying?  Can be a good way to get the conversation going.

 

16.  Has anyone ever tried Anal bleaching or tattooing?

• Bleaching technic more for aesthetics makes your butt look pretty lol
• Making a statement

 

17.  Does anyone enjoy arse to mouth play such as Rimming? What are some good tips to enjoying a good rimming?

• Love butts. ...
• It's a good idea for the recipient to clean their butt beforehand. ...If you choose to douche, take your time. ...Don't overclean (don’t do it every day – potentially harmful to “friendly bacteria”)
• Don't start rimming as soon as you're finished douching (ensure all water has exited first)
• Consider rimming lube.
• Your breath is just as important as your tongue. (warmth & moisture)
• Vary technique and location… Don’t forget to explore sensitive areas around the anus
• Use teeth sparingly – potentially pleasant pressing sensation… NO BITING!!
• Take a break – Saliva dries out skin
• Consider the sensation/effects of facial hairy (positive & negative)

 

18.  Another form of anal play is anal fisting.  What are some good tips to anal fisting?

• Do your homework – read up and research
• Patience – start off slow and work up to anal fisting – don’t go just shoving a fist in there
• Start off small – using toys or fingers to start with.  If using toys to start, use of smaller ones and build up to larger ones, you can get dilator sets and butt plug sets that do this.
• Warming up is important to get the sphincter muscles stretched and ready to take large objects such as fist.
• When working up to fisting, a hand position commonly used is the closed duck beak position, remember lube is your best friend so use lots.
• Once your anus feels ready, have them slowly enter your anus with their hand. Once you get past the knuckles, there's no need to "push" any further. The second anal ring will naturally draw the rest of the hand inside.
• Remember to keep your communication going throughout
• All anal fisting techniques should be followed carefully but there's really no such thing as the best body position for anal fisting — choose what works best for you. If you're an anal lover, you likely know which position works best for you as a receiver.
• Positions that may help - receiver can either lie on their back or side. If receiver is on their back, draw up the knees, and spread close to the chest. If receiver is on their side, you might want to place a pillow under their side for extra lift.

 

19.  Any final thoughts and or questions?

 

***Just remember if Anal sex hurts, you’re doing it wrong and lube will always be your bestest friend so don't be shy in being liberal with it***

 

Thank you to all who joined in the discussion and to @Bounty who kindly agreed to be our host for the evening. 

[Deleted Member]

Awesome munch, sorry couldn't stay to the end but it was a great time! Thank you Bounty! xxx

[Ms****]

👌🏽👍🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Great munch on anal last night 😉😉😇

[PleasureIsland]

When is the next Munch? I would like to learn more.

[Bo****]

Wish i could have been there! But @Bounty needed my tablet to host🙏🙏

[Psuedom]

6 hours ago, Boldbald said:

Wish i could have been there! But @Bounty needed my tablet to host🙏🙏

😂

[Psuedom]

6 hours ago, Lordsauron said:

When is the next Munch? I would like to learn more.

Next Thursday, 20:00 GMT. 😉👍

[PleasureIsland]

Are there any on Tuesdays?

[PixieDust]

2 minutes ago, Lordsauron said:

Are there any on Tuesdays?

Sorry no there are none on Tuesdays.  The Online Munch is run once a week every Thursday at 8pm UK time in a dedicated chatroom called the Quarantine Munch Room which is opened in the chatroom area once a week.  To access the room you will need to log on to either Desktop or Mobile Desktop versions of the site via your browser.  Once the Online Munch has been run a copy of the Notes/Agenda will be posted in the forum for those who could not attend.

[Deleted Member]

Marvelous theme and great advice. I was surprised you mentioned atm and discouraged atp. The risk of infection is the same. Douching and mouthwash afterwards is essential after both activities. The thrill of the taboo and stretching can increase orgasm.