From sub to cuckoldress

[sm****]

Hi, if you have experience with cuck dynamics, what are your tips for a beginner?
I have almost always been a sub (I can count on one hand the times I had something more dominant coming out of me).
How do you turn into a cuckoldress? How can one maintain the sub aspect of it with the bull but be a kind of domme to the cuck?
What techniques do you use?
How do you do the aftercare?
I feel like this can be a great opportunity for me to discover a little bit more my (almost non existing) switch side.
I am very curious about the experiences of all the people engaging in this.
Just share everything that comes to you mind :)

[jj****]

Well, I think that’s where you have to kind of dig deep to figure out how you feel about it.

For me, I guess I could have fun with the idea of tying him to a chair and letting him be used by someone of my choosing. If he’s into ***, you can work that in too, as in you objectifying him.

But you have to think about how the scenario would fit YOUR idea of fun. BDSM is a game. It’s supposed to be fun, but you decide what kind of fun that will be.

[Ca****]

I have previously been in two cuckold relationships with gfs who were very submissive to the bulls , I was /am in full time chastity gave oral on demand whilst all their penetrative sex came from others. My ex being sub struggled asking for oral , we found having a cuckold contract with terms and conditions , " banning fingers/toys/masterbation encouraged more for my tongue and bulls . We all implemented a rule where she didn't ask whenever she slightly opened her legs it was the cue to pleasure and slightly closing cue to end.

[Ra****]

Perhaps you're just looking at the situation in the wrong way. The entire idea about cuckolding is they are completely devoted to you but YOU do whatever your little heart's desire. You can still be the same submissive you always were you don't have to change.

When it comes to techniques and the proper aftercare that's really going to be a case-by-case basis based on the discussions and conversations you've had with your cuck. I think it's important to take their feedback and to understand their needs and desires but at the end of the day the choice is ultimately yours. The beauty I find in all of these dynamics is how much emphasis on communication is required. Just talk, just listen, just connect and you will find what works best for both of you.