Talking taint

[mr****]

So my very first gf would give me head and tell me to let her know when I’m close. And when I was ready to blow she should push on my taint. And my orgasim was like none I have ever had before or since. So I’m wondering why nobody seems to know about or talk about it not in all my experience..and I’m 46 been married 2 times and single to and never met another woman that knew about it or any of my guy friends.. I’m also wonder if this is the same as when the prostate is stimulated?? So please anyone had that type of orgasim befor lmk?? And why don’t more people know about this or done it.?My guess it’s it’s really hard and takes perfect timing I have tried doing it myself I have tried to teach ex gf too and never again… it’s like the girl I lost my virginity was a Jedi master lol.. I didn’t know how special it was cause I didn’t know shit at that age.. I just thought it was normal orgasim like a rocket ship 🚀 🤦

[Mr****]

Could be any number of things from the vigor of youth to, yeah, girl was naturally gifted at turning faucets into pressure washers lol. It's surprisingly hard to tell because I think a lot of women might be under the impression they might hurt us or something (which takes a great deal of calm reassurance that, no, compressive pressure is among the best feelings you can give in just about any trusting experience of touch).

[ra****]

Just now, MrDDS said:

Could be any number of things from the vigor of youth to, yeah, girl was naturally gifted at turning faucets into pressure washers lol. It's surprisingly hard to tell because I think a lot of women might be under the impression they might hurt us or something (which takes a great deal of calm reassurance that, no, compressive pressure is among the best feelings you can give in just about any trusting experience of touch).

This may be the greatest site on earth

[EmpressKK]

What's a 'taint'? Never heard of it before.

[Bl****]

Girl knew anatomy. Say hello to your pudendal nerve <3

[mr****]

10 minutes ago, MrDDS said:

Could be any number of things from the vigor of youth to, yeah, girl was naturally gifted at turning faucets into pressure washers lol. It's surprisingly hard to tell because I think a lot of women might be under the impression they might hurt us or something (which takes a great deal of calm reassurance that, no, compressive pressure is among the best feelings you can give in just about any trusting experience of touch).

Yep I took all those factors into consideration and thos orgasims were on a level all their own it was definitely the way she timed it and hit the perfect spot

[EmpressKK]

11 minutes ago, Bluum said:

Girl knew anatomy. Say hello to your pudendal nerve <3

Your whole comment makes absolutely no sense to me! 🤷🏾‍♀️

[Mr****]

15 minutes ago, EmpressKK said:

What's a 'taint'? Never heard of it before.

Its the spot between the very base of your dick and your asshole

[un****]

1 minute ago, MrNMrsFun said:

Its the spot between the very base of your dick and your asshole

Exactly. It ain't the dick and it ain't the asshole. Hence taint.

[Mr****]

18 minutes ago, EmpressKK said:

What's a 'taint'? Never heard of it before.

Colloquial slang for the perineum—the area of skin between the anus and the genitals (the testicles or the vagina).

[Mr****]

15 minutes ago, Bluum said:

Girl knew anatomy. Say hello to your pudendal nerve <3

You said "pudendal nerve" and all I could think was 🤤 lol My goodness, Bluum, thank you for being well-studied.

[mr****]

20 minutes ago, EmpressKK said:

What's a 'taint'? Never heard of it before.

It’s the space on a man between the balls and but hole

[Mr****]

16 minutes ago, mrwindell said:

Yep I took all those factors into consideration and thos orgasims were on a level all their own it was definitely the way she timed it and hit the perfect spot

To Bluum's point, not only did she know "what button to press" (literally) but she also knew when and how to press it (wildly underrated skills, to "know the moves" but to ALSO know "where they apply"—I could be speaking of martial arts, learning a new skill, or playing an instrument just as well as anything sexual here and, in my mind, it's all the same).

[Mr****]

4 minutes ago, under_the_radar2108 said:

Exactly. It ain't the dick and it ain't the asshole. Hence taint.

😂

[EmpressKK]

5 minutes ago, under_the_radar2108 said:

Exactly. It ain't the dick and it ain't the asshole. Hence taint.

Ahhh, now that makes sense. Thanks young man. 😊

[EmpressKK]

23 minutes ago, Bluum said:

Girl knew anatomy. Say hello to your pudendal nerve <3

I did look up 'pudental nerve', so thank you for teaching me something new young lady. 😊

[EmpressKK]

9 minutes ago, MrNMrsFun said:

Colloquial slang for the perineum—the area of skin between the anus and the genitals (the testicles or the vagina).

Now THAT I know and understand. Thanks. 🤗

[un****]

My experience giving blow job's and actively trying to put pressure in this place: *each man's is in a slightly different spot.
*each man's is a different size, and therefore all feel slightly different.
*some are easy to find externally, some are not.
*amount of pressure needed depends on the man.
*timing is crucial.

I always thought it was the prostrate gland and that I was massaging it from the outside.

It doesn't work for me everytime, even with the same people.

Sometimes it works so well I can't repeat it, no matter what I do. Eg. I once gave my husband an orgasm where he didn't ejaculate. It took me ages to convince him he hadn't ejaculated. In the end it freaked him out that his body could do something he never knew it could. I was never able to make it happen again. As soon as he'd get the feeling again, he'd mentally stop it form happening and was never able to completely let go again.

P.S. I got the tip from a Cosmopolitan or Cleo magazine about 30 years ago.

[un****]

10 minutes ago, EmpressKK said:

Ahhh, now that makes sense. Thanks young man. 😊

You're welcome. I am, however, a 50 year old woman. Not sure too many men actually know about this. 😉

[EmpressKK]

3 minutes ago, under_the_radar2108 said:

You're welcome. I am, however, a 50 year old woman. Not sure too many men actually know about this. 😉

I'm so sorry young Lady. Lack of sufficient sleep has my eyes and brain foggy. I did look at your profile photo to realise my mistake. 🙏🏾

[un****]

1 minute ago, EmpressKK said:

I'm so sorry young Lady. Lack of sufficient sleep has my eyes and brain foggy. I did look at your profile photo to realise my mistake. 🙏🏾

All good, I just wanted people to know it was a comment from an experienced woman, not an inexperienced man.

[Mr****]

10 minutes ago, under_the_radar2108 said:

My experience giving blow job's and actively trying to put pressure in this place: *each man's is in a slightly different spot.
*each man's is a different size, and therefore all feel slightly different.
*some are easy to find externally, some are not.
*amount of pressure needed depends on the man.
*timing is crucial.

I always thought it was the prostrate gland and that I was massaging it from the outside.

It doesn't work for me everytime, even with the same people.

Sometimes it works so well I can't repeat it, no matter what I do. Eg. I once gave my husband an orgasm where he didn't ejaculate. It took me ages to convince him he hadn't ejaculated. In the end it freaked him out that his body could do something he never knew it could. I was never able to make it happen again. As soon as he'd get the feeling again, he'd mentally stop it form happening and was never able to completely let go again.

P.S. I got the tip from a Cosmopolitan or Cleo magazine about 30 years ago.

❤️ I wish you all the luck in the world for your continued research. And seriously, consider publishing your findings somewhere: these are things that "people know" but most of this knowledge isn't centralized or found in "places of repute" (🙄🙄🙄), so at best it gets looked at as "niche deviance" instead of very learnable information and practicable skills.

[EmpressKK]

Fair point. Always keen to learn from the experienced, appreciated. 🤗

[mr****]

14 minutes ago, under_the_radar2108 said:

My experience giving blow job's and actively trying to put pressure in this place: *each man's is in a slightly different spot.
*each man's is a different size, and therefore all feel slightly different.
*some are easy to find externally, some are not.
*amount of pressure needed depends on the man.
*timing is crucial.

I always thought it was the prostrate gland and that I was massaging it from the outside.

It doesn't work for me everytime, even with the same people.

Sometimes it works so well I can't repeat it, no matter what I do. Eg. I once gave my husband an orgasm where he didn't ejaculate. It took me ages to convince him he hadn't ejaculated. In the end it freaked him out that his body could do something he never knew it could. I was never able to make it happen again. As soon as he'd get the feeling again, he'd mentally stop it form happening and was never able to completely let go again.

P.S. I got the tip from a Cosmopolitan or Cleo magazine about 30 years ago.

So what’s the conclusion is it hitting the prostate from the outside or its own thing I just can’t believe more people don’t know about this I think it’s just so hard to do and that timing is everything but theirs absolutely no comparison to this and I could never replicate it or find a woman who could it sure seems like a shame it’s that good

[un****]

9 minutes ago, mrwindell said:

So what’s the conclusion is it hitting the prostate from the outside or its own thing I just can’t believe more people don’t know about this I think it’s just so hard to do and that timing is everything but theirs absolutely no comparison to this and I could never replicate it or find a woman who could it sure seems like a shame it’s that good

No idea. I certainly have very little biology knowledge in that are past high school biology.

It may even be a combination of both. Perhaps this is the reason it's often difficult to replicate. Perhaps position is also key, so everything 'lines up', so to speak.

You may find a similar orgasm - or better from what I read - through being pegged.
(Though my experience in this area is non-existant, despite my willingness.)