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New to this world and curious to learn more.
Beginner, open-minded and respectful.
I enjoy chatting, learning, and having relaxed conversations with friendly people.
Always open to new connections and genuine exchanges. 😉
My roles & archetype
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🖤 Femdom as a Mindset: Curiosity, Respect, and First Steps
Femdom is often presented online in very loud, exaggerated ways. Strong visuals, extreme roles, rigid scripts. While those representations can be exciting, I’ve come to realize they only show a very small part of what female dominance can actually be.
What interests me most about femdom isn’t the Read more…shock factor or the performance, but the mindset behind it.
The idea of a woman leading, setting the tone, choosing the rhythm.
The psychology of control, trust, awareness, and intention.
The quiet confidence rather than the caricature.
I want to be honest: I’m curious about femdom and I’d like to experience it at some point, but I don’t have direct experience yet. That’s not something I see as a weakness… if anything, it makes me more aware of how important it is to listen before acting.
I think many people rush into roles without understanding what really sustains them. Power exchange, especially in femdom dynamics, seems to be less about copying fantasies and more about communication, presence, and mutual respect.
So this article is less a statement and more an open reflection.
For women who identify with dominance, or who have explored it in their own way:
• What do you think truly matters when someone approaches femdom for the first time?
• What do beginners often misunderstand?
• And what, in your experience, makes an interaction feel grounded rather than performative?
I’m interested in learning, not rushing.
What interests me most about femdom isn’t the Read more…shock factor or the performance, but the mindset behind it.
The idea of a woman leading, setting the tone, choosing the rhythm.
The psychology of control, trust, awareness, and intention.
The quiet confidence rather than the caricature.
I want to be honest: I’m curious about femdom and I’d like to experience it at some point, but I don’t have direct experience yet. That’s not something I see as a weakness… if anything, it makes me more aware of how important it is to listen before acting.
I think many people rush into roles without understanding what really sustains them. Power exchange, especially in femdom dynamics, seems to be less about copying fantasies and more about communication, presence, and mutual respect.
So this article is less a statement and more an open reflection.
For women who identify with dominance, or who have explored it in their own way:
• What do you think truly matters when someone approaches femdom for the first time?
• What do beginners often misunderstand?
• And what, in your experience, makes an interaction feel grounded rather than performative?
I’m interested in learning, not rushing.
🧠👀 Are Kinks Trending? Observations from a Newcomer
Hi everyone, I’m new here on fetish.com and still very much in observation mode 👋
While browsing profiles, groups, and discussions, I’ve noticed that certain kinks and fetishes seem to pop up a lot more than others almost like trends.
So I got curious and wanted to open a discussion:
• Which kinks Read more…or fetishes do you feel are most “in vogue” right now?
• Do you think these are just temporary trends, or reflections of deeper social or psychological changes?
• How much influence do you think social media, porn, or online communities have had on how people discover and express their kinks?
• Are there any dynamics, aesthetics, or mental aspects you’re seeing more often that still surprise you?
I’m not only thinking about the well-known classics, but also subtle dynamics, mindsets, or newer expressions that seem to be gaining visibility.
I’d really enjoy hearing different perspectives from long-time members as well as other newcomers like me.
Looking forward to reading your thoughts 👀
While browsing profiles, groups, and discussions, I’ve noticed that certain kinks and fetishes seem to pop up a lot more than others almost like trends.
So I got curious and wanted to open a discussion:
• Which kinks Read more…or fetishes do you feel are most “in vogue” right now?
• Do you think these are just temporary trends, or reflections of deeper social or psychological changes?
• How much influence do you think social media, porn, or online communities have had on how people discover and express their kinks?
• Are there any dynamics, aesthetics, or mental aspects you’re seeing more often that still surprise you?
I’m not only thinking about the well-known classics, but also subtle dynamics, mindsets, or newer expressions that seem to be gaining visibility.
I’d really enjoy hearing different perspectives from long-time members as well as other newcomers like me.
Looking forward to reading your thoughts 👀
LikelilRedbeard, SirLicksUhLot, pinecraft54495and 34 more… · 14 Replies
EntheogenWarrior I haven’t been around a terribly long time, so maybe it was always this way.. but my gut tells me that 50 Shades of Grey has played a large part in the minds of the masses. If it has always been that 99.9% of women want to be tied up and ***d, I still suspect that the book has made it more.. Read more… acceptable? to be into those things. Wouldn’t be surprised if it made it trendy as well. I say this not to look down upon anyone, or suggest that what they want isn’t genuine. It’s simply food for thought. Why do people take everything so personal these days anyways?
Likewoburn169344
· 19.12.2025 16:21:17
PLEASEandTEASEme ➦PLEASEandTEASEme quote rawdawgsamuraiArrf:❝This is just a personal opinion. This kink bullshit is like being an actor or actress in a movie. It's extra. It's fake. It's like comic con or Halloween all year round. Everyone is mostly an asshole or a cunt here. As if regular dating apps weren't hard Read more… enough to please these women, now you're on one that adds a bunch of extra fairytale, dungeons and dragons bullshit. Society is fucked ❞
Im sorry you feel that way, but here is a question...What is it that makes you disparage those here who find this lifestyle and those who enjoy adding kinks to their sex life? We are obviously a community who enjoy such things or have an interest in it. This website/app is designed who want the extra. Who do not find it fake and who actually find connections that become strong and create bonds like non other. I have friends and social connections that have come from this that have been amazing and found two people who have become my people that love the kink! Just because you dont understand something, doesn't make it fake or wrong, it just makes it different.
Im sorry you feel that way, but here is a question...What is it that makes you disparage those here who find this lifestyle and those who enjoy adding kinks to their sex life? We are obviously a community who enjoy such things or have an interest in it. This website/app is designed who want the extra. Who do not find it fake and who actually find connections that become strong and create bonds like non other. I have friends and social connections that have come from this that have been amazing and found two people who have become my people that love the kink! Just because you dont understand something, doesn't make it fake or wrong, it just makes it different.
Likehumber-bridge314341, eyemblacksheep, soleil8534and 1 more…
· 19.12.2025 3:18:57
eyemblacksheep I think there is a good point in the sense of younger people being more exposed to porn has meant that some stuff they think is a common part of sex (throat fucking, choking, etc) rather than something not everyone is into (or that does need somewhat care) it is just a cycle of old problems that sometimes people do things because they feel they have to. I think there is a good point in the sense of younger people being more exposed to porn has meant that some stuff they think is a common part of sex (throat fucking, choking, etc) rather than something not everyone is into (or that does need somewhat care) it is just a cycle of old problems that sometimes people do things because they feel they have to.
LikePlaysNayked
· 18.12.2025 20:57:38
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2) That dommes do not get their pleasure from fulfilling specific fantasies the sub (actually bottom) might have.
3) That it's me the one deciding what to do and especially WHEN to do Read more… it (within the boundaries of the sub). Being chased around, constantly being asked when we're going to play doesn't inspire dominance in me (for obvious reasons).
It's actually no different than vanilla. A man who doesn't constantly talk about sex is a man I might want to sleep with.