Sa**** Posted July 6 Don't give up girl! I know it's tough dating out there, especially these days. Just continue putting yourself out there and I'm certain you will find some one that not only meets your kink needs, but also respects and treats you like the woman you are. Best of luck!
Sa**** Posted July 6 Saturday at 08:51 PM, blondecupcake333 said: i feel the same way!! i date from other states only loll the men here suck vanilla losers Conservatives? I've heard they're vanilla too
Tr**** Posted July 6 Never be afraid to express who you are and never be ashamed of what you like. There are men out there who want a woman like you
Sa**** Posted July 7 I’m in the same situation. On top of that, I don’t let people in easily…so I’m even extremely picky on here. Don’t change that though. You shouldn’t have to settle for anything less.
Ma**** Posted July 7 Author since a bunch of people have asked what my kinks are in response to this I'll go ahead and say. i'm mainly trying to find someone that is into me wearing diapers. it's been hard enough to find a caregiver at all, but add in the fact i wear and use diapers and it's been basically impossible :/
Ba**** Posted July 7 You may wanna move to a more populated and/or less conservative area Not sayin you have to straight up uproot yourself but you could start by expanding your search radius to include places that would require weekend trips to visit events and meet people You can still consider more permanent things once you have options
Deleted Member Posted July 7 Broaden your net. You probably won’t have luck finding someone in a really conservative area. Wouldn’t be too hard to find someone into diapers, but I think you might need to reevaluate your priorities. Someone could be a great CG and compatible with you in a lot of ways, BUT be unwilling to deal with soiled diapers. Would you say no to the full package of who they are as a person just because of that one detail? What if they had 87% kink alignment? People are not kink dispensers and the people who seem too perfectly aligned with you are usually mirroring you on purpose. You could always pay a Domme to fulfill your used diaper kink if you that fantasy is very important to you, but otherwise, you might pass up on a lot of great people who would make you happy.
Deleted Member Posted July 7 I don’t mean to be a doomer. It’s not impossible, but I would also recommend finding specialized groups for that. There’s probably a group of FetLife FULL of people who have that specific kink. If you still don’t have any luck, it might be time to compromise.
Ne**** Posted July 8 You found the common solution I think lol online is the way for a reason. Find the nearest kinksters or kink events online?
Ba**** Posted July 8 2 hours ago, backitupbottom said: Do you mind sharing what your specific kinks are OP already did Read five posts above yours the one above my last one
de**** Posted July 13 I appreciate the constructive criticism in these comments. In all sincerity, the question is too broad of one. Ask yourself why this particular thing could be a problem. I mean no disrespect but I feel baited by the original post. I am glad you seemed this a safe space but there are underlying reasons you may potentially be having the same issues. There are kink specific forums for starters.
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