Woman and Older Men

[Ma****]

I know that there are many women who are really into older men. I am always curious as to how that makes you feel when you are with an older gentlemen? I’m
Not asking why you are attracted to them but more what are the feelings you get with an older man that you don’t with a younger one. Thanks.

[Wy****]

I like the things that often (not always) come with maturity. They are often calmer, know what they want, are overall more stable and situated in their lives. They have more life experience, their focus and interest are more aligned with mine.

When it comes to kink, I like someone who is confident, settled with themself, and competent in their craft. This all often (with all the usual caveats) comes with age and experience.

[Ia****]

I get feelings of security. (I strive to have my own ***. I like being independent.) But many older people have spent the time to know what they want, who they want and have spent time to know themselves. That allows me to feel more secure in the relationship because when I'm ready for a committed relationship, I don't want to be in limbo & wondering if the person I'm with likes me or not. I don't want to carry the emotional labor & develop emotional depth for the both of us if I date people around my age. I'm tired of having conversations & it leads to nowhere as well. Because many people in my generation don't read. So they don't make good conversation partners either.

[DaddysSassyGirl]

What i am curious about is, why do Men around Your age consider Yourself “older” and, why do Ones such as Yourself don’t like girls my say my age?

[la****]

Well, depends on what you mean by older. As in older than the person looking or just older as in over a certain age. What I see, typically, is the older gents (40-60) have tended to be more experienced, more gentle and just kinder in general. Not that the younger ones aren't but they are rare because of their inexperience. Again don't anybody shoot me down, this is just my experience

[St****]

I’m an older man….not speaking for women, but from my perspective, I think the older I’ve got I’ve become more caring and considerate of what a woman wants. I like my kinks, but if she doesn’t enjoy it it won’t work for me.

[SI****]

Hello there, many times it has to do with how they carry themselves with confidence, maturity level, and appreciation of a real woman. Since women mature earlier than men, it does tend to happen where you find older men attractive. That used to really only work when I was much younger, not so much now. Now, it end tends to be the kind of person, where it lends itself to, age is just a number mentality. How did/does it make me feel? Very comfortable and safe knowing I am in hood hands. I can speak freely, be myself, be comfortable, which is liberating and part of a good recipe for good friend or partner.

[le****]

For me, personally, it’s the experience. Older men tend to be a bit more respectful and understanding of boundaries.

[Th****]

It makes me feel young? I mean, I know I'm young 😂 but it's makes me feel like that "sweet summer child" that I have yet to learn and know all these wonderful things and s/he would be the one to show me! Plus, older folk tend to be more respectful and not in a hurry to get to the sexual acts which I personally enjoy taking my time to get there as well. It's having someone care about what I think and take it into consideration past a "preference" and actively participate in the experience (again, the build up to the play time vs straight to it once they know what you want/like). As someone with not a lot of expensive, learning from someone who has experience makes me feel like I won't be led wrong.

[le****]

9 minutes ago, TheAfterAffect said:

It makes me feel young? I mean, I know I'm young 😂 but it's makes me feel like that "sweet summer child" that I have yet to learn and know all these wonderful things and s/he would be the one to show me! Plus, older folk tend to be more respectful and not in a hurry to get to the sexual acts which I personally enjoy taking my time to get there as well. It's having someone care about what I think and take it into consideration past a "preference" and actively participate in the experience (again, the build up to the play time vs straight to it once they know what you want/like). As someone with not a lot of expensive, learning from someone who has experience makes me feel like I won't be led wrong.

You explained it perfectly! I feel the same haha

[as****]

The only ones I have seen in to older men is doing it for ***

[da****]

For me it’s a maturity thing. I’m 18 so I’m really young and most males around my age are boys not men. So far the majority of younger males that have contacted me on this app have wanted some form of sexual conversation without so much of a hi, or they just look at pictures, whilst the older males tend to ask questions about my profile and actually read it.

[me****]

It’s nothing but women that want ***.

[metronome]

1 hour ago, StrongKindCurious said:

I’m an older man….not speaking for women, but from my perspective, I think the older I’ve got I’ve become more caring and considerate of what a woman wants. I like my kinks, but if she doesn’t enjoy it it won’t work for me.

Could not agree more.

[wa****]

I know exactly why she enjoys my company and we are both totally ok with that and we thoroughly enjoy our time together. She’s 27 I’m 52. She loves that I don’t hassle her, I’m very laid back and chill. Oh my goodness it is sooooooo good.

[gh****]

Cause men my age tend to suck nothing more than egos, and older males tend to be more calm.

[pa****]

Older men have *** & stories to flaunt, younger men are stressed & broke.. basically one makes you stressed too and the other soothes you🤷

[Ma****]

4 hours ago, WyldKatt said:

I like the things that often (not always) come with maturity. They are often calmer, know what they want, are overall more stable and situated in their lives. They have more life experience, their focus and interest are more aligned with mine.

When it comes to kink, I like someone who is confident, settled with themself, and competent in their craft. This all often (with all the usual caveats) comes with age and experience.

So I have heard a lot of those same positives about an older gentlemen. But when you meet one like you described above, how does that make you feel? More protected? More sophisticated? I’m curious as to those core feelings you get that vary between an older man and a man your age.

[Ma****]

3 hours ago, TheAfterAffect said:

It makes me feel young? I mean, I know I'm young 😂 but it's makes me feel like that "sweet summer child" that I have yet to learn and know all these wonderful things and s/he would be the one to show me! Plus, older folk tend to be more respectful and not in a hurry to get to the sexual acts which I personally enjoy taking my time to get there as well. It's having someone care about what I think and take it into consideration past a "preference" and actively participate in the experience (again, the build up to the play time vs straight to it once they know what you want/like). As someone with not a lot of expensive, learning from someone who has experience makes me feel like I won't be led wrong.

That’s was a very good answer. Thank you.

[Ma****]

1 hour ago, ghoulishvic said:

Cause men my age tend to suck nothing more than egos, and older males tend to be more calm.

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you find a nice guy who rocks your world. Inside and outside of the bedroom.

[k2****]

I feel more safe

[ea****]

I feel taken care of

[hw****]

I don't think it's a universal thing but older men such as myself are better with foreplay and the build up

[fl****]

The feeling of safety and i am being taken care of. The maturity a deeper Connection and deeper Conversations.

[fl****]

They have lived a life and they know exactly what they what and if they find it they go for it ,not scared of feelings.