Woman and Older Men

[pw****]

It feels more real, more mature. Older men have experience, so they know not to rush things and not to play around (most of the time)
They are more understanding of embarrassing things and just real life situations! Younger men are exhausting, older men make life fun, real and mature🤷🏻‍♀️🩷

[kristinaboo]

I just love the rush I get when older man look my way and smile they are much more experienced and know how to talk to me and not rush into things it’s something I can’t explain but older men just do it for me

[Ly****]

Been married to an older man for 16 years now; it is much much more organic. Less nervous energy. Less stress on My mind and nervous system. Young men are not ready for some forms of social interaction. I’m Demi sexual though so I’m picky at a different level.

[Mo****]

My best partner was 16 years older than me. He enjoyed caressing and touching, foreplay and being naked. All of that made our connection even better. To me, it seems like younger men want the instant gratification and don’t realize that it takes some effort.

[be****]

I love talking to girls in their early 20’s. Guys in their early 20’s don’t understand how to compliment and treat a woman. I’m 54 and there is nothing like nailing a girl 1/2 your age

[So****]

I'm 62 n wife 45 been together 19years

[Y7****]

My fwb partner is 15 years older than me. I just love the maturity and calm in his personality.

[wa****]

20 hours ago, bellevue51589 said:

I love talking to girls in their early 20’s. Guys in their early 20’s don’t understand how to compliment and treat a woman. I’m 54 and there is nothing like nailing a girl 1/2 your age

Right there with you , 52; nothing better than a 26 yr old that knows what she likes

[de****]

It because older men know how to push a lady to extreme orgasm

[ru****]

Honestly, being with someone older than me specifically an older man makes me feel cared for and secure. I like feeling babied and spoiled, but not in a way that makes me feel incapable. I want someone confident, mature, emotionally grounded, and secure in themselves. Someone who knows how to love me properly, is patient with me, pays attention to the little things, and treats me right while still being confident enough to take the lead. I like feeling like I can let my guard down and be soft with someone because I trust that they’ll take care of me & I want to do the same by providing just as much into the dynamic as well. There’s something really attractive about feeling cherished, protected, understood, and wanted by someone who has the maturity to know how to handle all sides of me. 😵‍💫😵‍💫 NEED

[Deleted Member]

Personally I think younger guys lack my level of patience and are easily overwhelmed by the needs of a woman their age or younger, I read all the time about women being told they're too needy, too much etc. A woman says something about what she needs and or wants and the younger guys bail. That's just one of the things I think can make age gap relationships attractive.

[ha****]

The problem is that women don’t stop wanting these things as they get older. But at some point the “older men” get closer in age to us and they still want the younger women. That often times leaves older women feeling unwanted and disposable. Not all of us want relationships with younger men and a lot of men who are older than us are reaching an age where things just don’t work the way they used to. So where does that leave us?

[wi****]

Personally I see this topic 2 different ways. Either you physically want a woman that’s younger or older man for whatever reasons OR you enjoy roleplaying and it doesn’t really matter your physical age. I totally get younger guys can’t imagine foreplay that lasts longer than 10 seconds and older guys may need more help to get in the saddle. I’m a 32 year old man and even though I love the older guy young girl scenario, I’m at that awkward age where a young girl that finds 32 old is just to close to being inappropriate. But on the other hand I met a woman on FET that was 61 and she loved roleplaying no matter the age and it just worked out incredibly beneficial for both of us, enough that we still play almost a year later.

[Deleted Member]

Ftr, I'm not speaking about anything sexual, I was referring to things more on the emotional and mental side. I'm a boomer but I identify more with the gen-x crowd, when my wife and I got together I wasn't looking for someone younger, she just turned out to be. I'm open to pretty much any age range but I shy away from anyone under 30.

[Deleted Member]

Personally I will only be with younger men. I’ve been with men my own age and older men and they don’t treat me well at all or have the same morals and ethics as myself but younger men do. But, it’s mainly about how I’m treated. I know what I deserve and how I deserve to be treated and men younger than me seem to know that too.

[Sm****]

July 26, daddysgoodgirl08 said:

For me it’s a maturity thing. I’m 18 so I’m really young and most males around my age are boys not men. So far the majority of younger males that have contacted me on this app have wanted some form of sexual conversation without so much of a hi, or they just look at pictures, whilst the older males tend to ask questions about my profile and actually read it.

You are correct. I don't mind having dirty talk and what not but that's not really how i like things to start out. I would much rather get to know you personally before things head in a sexual direction. A connection makes everything better, including sex.

[ph****]

It's mostly about having enough experience, maturity to understand that BDSM is not only sexual but is based on the responsability of having someone trust you with their safety. Younger men are usually only thinking about sex before considering the human aspect as all, they mistake BDSM for an all u can eat buffet of kink instead of honoring its complexity , older men understand that consent must be fully given before even hinting to sex and they have more patience mostly (not all ofcourse there are still older men who don't act their age)

[Y7****]

21 hours ago, phoenix105 said:

It's mostly about having enough experience, maturity to understand that BDSM is not only sexual but is based on the responsability of having someone trust you with their safety. Younger men are usually only thinking about sex before considering the human aspect as all, they mistake BDSM for an all u can eat buffet of kink instead of honoring its complexity , older men understand that consent must be fully given before even hinting to sex and they have more patience mostly (not all ofcourse there are still older men who don't act their age)

So true. I have experienced something similar as well. 🙂

[Pi****]

Phoenix 105 Must say your extremely wise young lady on your take about older men Doms. I learned so much from an older woman back when I was 18. I still use everything that I learned from that amazing 47 old Lady. You just can't ignore the Knowledge of some much older ones. I'm a wealth of knowledge and I enjoy so much passing it on. But Phoenix 105 your a very smart young lady. Always keep learning every day is my biggest suggestion.