Cute and kinky might be a problem?

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August 28, wickedintentions said:

As demonstrated by some of these comments, being cute and kinky isn’t the problem - you are not the problem - immature and emotionally unstable men are the problem.

There's nothing Noble about hating men my friend. And again insulting me and then blocking me doesn't make you a hero or a good person. All of your comments are nothing but bigotry against men

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I agree girl its hard to find

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16 hours ago, jaxnorth said:

There's nothing Noble about hating men my friend. And again insulting me and then blocking me doesn't make you a hero or a good person. All of your comments are nothing but bigotry against men

"Bigotry against men" is a crazy assertion. You have some growing up to do dude

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19 minutes ago, theolen said:

"Bigotry against men" is a crazy assertion. You have some growing up to do dude

Personally, I don’t hate men. I have a lot of friends that are meant quite a few gay men are my friends. I just don’t find men attractive and there’s nothing wrong with that.
I am nervous around men I don’t know, though because out of the dozen of times I’ve been attacked. They were always a man.

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If you find it, please let me know

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August 28, wickedintentions said:

As demonstrated by some of these comments, being cute and kinky isn’t the problem - you are not the problem - immature and emotionally unstable men are the problem.

Mutants like this are funny to me, they insult you and then they block you, because they know they have nothing to say that can be defended. He says women choose the bear because it turns out that he knows that he can't be trusted around women

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Saturday at 01:44 PM, jaxnorth said:

Mutants like this are funny to me, they insult you and then they block you, because they know they have nothing to say that can be defended. He says women choose the bear because it turns out that he knows that he can't be trusted around women

I think if there’s any community that would be able to help heal humanities issues I think the kink community could be that community because we are a lot more open and honest about who we are and are not really concerned about censorship we both request consent but also share our opinions honestly without any sugarcoating. Are there toxic people in our community yeah absolutely and you’ll get that everywhere because that’s what humans are but I do believe we are one of them are honest communities and we are able to have positive communication with one another and that’s why spaces like this are really important. I don’t believe in blocking anyone unless they become a serious danger to me because that closes off all possibility of communication and doesn’t solve anything. It’s my belief that communication compromise understanding and empathy is what is going to help the human race move forward.

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11 hours ago, KimberlyAwaruff said:

I think if there’s any community that would be able to help heal humanities issues I think the kink community could be that community because we are a lot more open and honest about who we are and are not really concerned about censorship we both request consent but also share our opinions honestly without any sugarcoating. Are there toxic people in our community yeah absolutely and you’ll get that everywhere because that’s what humans are but I do believe we are one of them are honest communities and we are able to have positive communication with one another and that’s why spaces like this are really important. I don’t believe in blocking anyone unless they become a serious danger to me because that closes off all possibility of communication and doesn’t solve anything. It’s my belief that communication compromise understanding and empathy is what is going to help the human race move forward.

I disagree with that entirely I think that the king Community is absolutely not better than other communities when it comes to being welcoming. In a lot of ways the king Community is almost like a political forum. You have to have exactly the right thoughts and the right beliefs otherwise you're branded a creep a loser sexist racist a rapist I mean if I had a nickel every time someone brought out the term red flag I could buy this company. All the problems with dating apps where people think they're too good for other people is Amplified times a thousand on Kink apps because the ratio is already in favor of women. There's no patience or willingness to understand each other on these sites. There's a definitely an attitude of what have you done for me lately

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The fault isn't yours for being openly kinky. It's on the people who take that openness and turn it into permission they were never given.

If you say you like ***, that doesn't mean some stranger gets to degrade you. If you say you're submissive, that doesn't make them your dominant.

They're making the assumption. That's theirs to own. You do you, let them vet themselves out of your life.

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5 hours ago, SJVox said:

The fault isn't yours for being openly kinky. It's on the people who take that openness and turn it into permission they were never given.

If you say you like ***, that doesn't mean some stranger gets to degrade you. If you say you're submissive, that doesn't make them your dominant.

They're making the assumption. That's theirs to own. You do you, let them vet themselves out of your life.

No nobody should be degraded in the sense of genuine hostile ***, you're not being said I've always found it odd that somebody can have a profile that's literally nothing but them getting f**ked by 18 different people and their profile name is something like come guzzler and they'll be outraged that someone said hey I'd love to be one of those guys sometime. Like I think sometimes the quote unquote boundaries are ridiculously arbitrary

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Your question is also a perfect statement. It shows openess, vulnerability, and demands what you want and need. The right person sees and hears that

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You can always set boundaries and then tear them down slowly as you get more comfortable with them