Ideal match partner

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Some of us intelligent ones are shy and just dont know what to say. We are usually very quiet

[si****]

I'm Sapio Demi. Attracted to intelligence- not necessarily formally educated but innately intelligent. Like ambition- in whatever direction the person chooses

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2 hours ago, simplemedicine said:

I'm Sapio Demi. Attracted to intelligence- not necessarily formally educated but innately intelligent. Like ambition- in whatever direction the person chooses

Me too!

[OB****]

I love submission in my partner because it is so much more than following directions. It is the beautiful combination of trust, vulnerability, and the desire to make each other happy.

I love knowing that she chooses to surrender control to me, not because she is weak, but because she feels safe enough to let go. Her submission is a gift she gives willingly, and I value that gift deeply. It tells me that she trusts my intentions, believes in my care for her, and feels comfortable expressing a side of herself that makes her happy.

I love seeing her confidence grow, watching her discover new things about herself, and knowing that her submission can bring her joy, peace, and a sense of belonging. I want her to feel cherished, appreciated, protected, and desired. I want to be someone she can turn to when the world feels overwhelming, knowing she will be heard, respected, and cared for.

For me, being a Dominant is not about taking something from her. It is about creating a space where she can freely give what she wants to give, knowing her boundaries matter and her voice will always be respected.

I love her submission because I love the woman behind it. I love her courage, her honesty, her willingness to communicate, and the happiness that shines through when she feels understood.

Her submission makes me happy because it allows us to share something special that belongs to us alone. Every act of trust, every honest conversation, every moment of connection strengthens our bond.

I don't want obedience without understanding or submission without affection. I want a partner who chooses me with an open heart, who feels fulfilled in surrender, and who knows that the more she trusts me, the more responsibility I have to deserve that trust.

To me, the greatest beauty of submission is this: she gives me the privilege of leading, and I give her the security of knowing she will always matter. Together, we build something founded on trust, communication, respect, and love.

That is why I love submission in my partner. Not because I want to own her spirit, but because I want to nurture it, celebrate it, and help her shine in the way that makes her happiest.

[Ki****]

Someone who would believe me

[Se****]

For me attraction is a combination of chemistry, personality, and physical attraction! The ability to be myself with a partner that has the same freedoms! An Honest person leads my list of attractions! I have certain physical preferences, but being accepted for who I am and accepting her as she is is a mutual connection! This foundation is critical for me to show the slightest form of affection. Without any affection the rest is a cold process that gives me no satisfaction! When all minimum requirements are met, a honest friendship started, then let the good times begin!!!

[sa****]

If they are kind. Non confrontational

[fa****]

I look for adventure, for novelty, for exporinng human nature and pleasure together

[Midnight_Channel]

It would be really cool to have someone i feel comfortable enough with to actually be friends with and play video games and shit with but do lots of sexting and flirting as well without it getting weird or possessive, a true tomboy "friends" with benefits experience.

[Ti****]

Empathetic and sympathetic , but not gullible. Submissive at home, and in bed, but has some resilience. Thoughtful, fun, Nasty and freaky with some set boundaries. Not financially dependent on me, we're adults not ***.

[ni****]

Sexuality and Chemistry