Partner Swapping

Live out your partner swapping fantasies

Why do some people enjoy partner swapping?

Live out your partner swapping fantasies

Partner swapping is the concept behind the classic 'key party', with the idea being that two established (and probably otherwise monogamous) couples swap partners for a single encounter or night. For some this develops into a more ongoing and polyamory-like arrangement, while for others it's just a little fun to help them change things up a bit and maybe explore some of your hitherto unrealised fantasies.

There's more than one way to get involved in this, but for most a swinger's club is the easiest place to start. Check out our events sections to find out which clubs are near you, and make sure you're in fantastic communication with your partner before you begin!

What is swinging/partner swapping?

When monogamous couples seek out casual sexual encounters with others.

Why do some people enjoy partner swapping?

There are many reasons why. Some people like to live out fantasies, others enjoy various cuckold and cuckqueen scenarios where some others have an open relationship and enjoy sex with other people than just their main partner. It can add spice to a relationship for some and for others it’s just how they enjoy sex and relationships.

How do you stay safe partner swapping?

Make sure condoms are used for all penetrative sex and have a thorough conversation with everyone joining in the scene about their sexual health. If you’re a single woman, be sure you know and trust the people you’re playing with or you know the swingers club you’re visiting. You want to know that you’ll be in control and that consent is observed at all times.

How do I find a swingers club?

Lots of clubs are listed on the Fetish.com places page and lots have their own websites. Search for swingers clubs in your area. It’s really easy to find them now in the digital age.

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Swinging is another form of non-monogamy, though one that looks at the question from a very different perspective to polyamory. Swingers tend to be in serious, stable, primary relationships and have occasional sex with other people who are also in those relationships; the primary couple is considered the most important thing of all, and the theory behind the extra-marital sexual relationships is that they're 'a bit of fun' without too much romance or a lot of intense emotions. Of course, in practice swingers often form wonderfully intense bonds with their other partners; human connection is what it's all about, after all!

Want all the attention?

The 'classic' gangbang situation is one woman being fucked by a group of men at once. It's likely to involve double or triple penetration and sometimes ends up with some pretty intense cumshots. There are plenty of variations on the theme, of course, people of all sexualities and gender identities can enjoy a good gangbang - but the core concept is a whole group of people all concentrating on having their way with a single sub. Many BDSM fans find that this is a common and highly enticing fantasy, particularly if they're into the idea of sexual humiliation.

Live out your FFM threesome fantasies

When someone describes a threesome as being 'FFM', they're usually indicating that it involved two people who identify as women and one who identifies as a man. This is a common fantasy for a lot of bisexual women, a lot of straight men and a lot of other people besides! Featuring in lots of porn, this is a fantasy that people love to revisit time and time again. If you want to make your FFM threesome dreams come true, you’re in the right place. There’s lots of kinksters on fetish.com looking for threesome fun, chat about it on the forums or start a personal ad to make your fantasy reality.