Gangbang

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What is the difference between a gangbang and an orgy?

How do I keep myself safe as part of a gangbang?

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The 'classic' gangbang situation is one woman being fucked by a group of men at once. It's likely to involve double or triple penetration and sometimes ends up with some pretty intense cumshots. There are plenty of variations on the theme, of course, people of all sexualities and gender identities can enjoy a good gangbang - but the core concept is a whole group of people all concentrating on having their way with a single sub. Many BDSM fans find that this is a common and highly enticing fantasy, particularly if they're into the idea of sexual humiliation.

What is a gangbang?

Commonly, it consists of one female and several men but can be any configuration of people but with all people concerned concentrating on one singular sub.

What is the difference between a gangbang and an orgy?

In an orgy, members can have sex with just a few of the people in the room or all of them. So there can be several different sexual scenes going on at the same time where a gangbang is concentrated on one central person.

How do I keep myself safe as part of a gangbang?

Make sure you know and trust the people involved. Discuss consent, safewords and actions (in case you’re gagged or otherwise can’t speak) and soft and hard limits before you start the scene. Make sure everyone involved knows what is and isn’t allowed and that condoms are used for all penetrative sex. If you prepare well and involve people you trust it should be perfectly safe.

How do I organise a gangbang?

You’ll need a group of likeminded people and a venue to hold the gangbang in. This might be best done at a swingers, BDSM or sex club. As they will have specially designed spaces and lots of condoms and lube on hand. t is definitely something that needs lots of conversation and planning before hand, it’s not something you can ask strangers to do, as you need a lot of trust between those playing.

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Safety, consent and respect for boundaries

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