Swapping Couples

[Deleted Member]

Hey everyone! I’m having a hard time finding couples although I did just make this account. I guess I thought it would be easier than it actual is and have to be patient but I’m not hahaha.  So just want to share personal experiences with other couples, maybe you can help educate other through your experiences and how swapping was for you? We are first time so would love to hear some feedback!!!!!

[Deleted Member]

They are out there

[ge****]

You may find that you'd be better served on a site related to swinging rather than fetish for a swapping experience - most people here will be looking for the kink angle rather than swapping - and because of the dynamic and its many intricacies, many in the kink community are not into sharing/swapping partners.

That said, there's no harm in asking either, but your opportunities may, as you've been finding, be limited here.

So perhaps use a swinging site to cater to the swapping angle, and here for the kink stuff. Or you could always try a local swinging club if there are any near you.

I notice from your profile that you wouldn't want to see your partner with another woman, and so would prefer separate room swapping, and that is fine and quite common, you just need to be open and honest about it with people you approach - a word of warning though, be very sure it's what you want before going ahead, even separate room swapping can play with your mind in the worst possible way, both during and after any play, so talk, talk and talk some more between each other before going ahead.

Just as with kink, most swingers have boundaries and limits, so consider yours and make sure you discuss them with others beforehand.

[boston620]

There are bars/events that cater specifically to swinging. I would search around on Reddit in your local subreddits for recommendations.

[ge****]

Ignore my second reply if it appears - my first wasn't showing just now for some reason so typed a summary of it as I thought it had disappeared 🙄

[FETMOD-KF]

Just now, gemini_man said:

Ignore my second reply if it appears - my first wasn't showing just now for some reason so typed a summary of it as I thought it had disappeared 🙄

Sorry!  On the kink academy forum all comments need to be approved - your first one hadn't disappeared, we just hadn't yet approved it

We've let that through and hidden your second one.

[ge****]

1 hour ago, FETMOD-KF said:

Sorry!  On the kink academy forum all comments need to be approved - your first one hadn't disappeared, we just hadn't yet approved it

We've let that through and hidden your second one.

Well every day is a school day 🙂 I didn't know that but it explains a lot and will bear in mind in future..thank you 🙂

[da****]

Yeah it’s hard for my partner and I to find good couple too

[ey****]

Particularly online - patience is key

If your interested in swinging, mind, it might be easier on a dedicated swinging website such as FabSwingers but even there there's folk with good experiences and people who found it harder to navigate due to timewasters, fantasists and those wary of them

For s***dier results - attending in person is often a good idea : I guess a slight problem of course is that while you might find someone's partner attractive and they might find your partner attractive there is also still the respective partners preferences to consider also.  

I think in simplest terms that you avoid a situation where, say, your partner feels they have to have sex or play with someone because you want to play with said persons partner. 

[gr****]

Same, seems like everyone is fake

[TE****]

Can't possibly be "EVERYONE", but some or most forsure

[MaddieShires]

I'm a line female, prev used local swingers. It's not a bad site

[Deleted Member]

I'm a real bloke too, Hi Maddie as well, FabSwingers is a decent site for couples

[wa****]

Where are you from ? Check out the LS clubs 😜 they are so much fun ..