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32 minutes ago, HalfDomHalfSub said:
Wait.....so if I'm attracted to a trans body.... I'm a "chaser"?
I'm not allowed to be genuinely/sexually attracted to trans people as well as intersex people? Cuz I'll fuck that too if they're willing.

It isn't that. It's if you ONLY go after trans people because we're trans.
Someone being bi (or other) and attracted to trans people because they fall under a gender you're attracted to doesn't make you a chaser.

23 minutes ago, BabyBoyNate said:

It isn't that. It's if you ONLY go after trans people because we're trans.
Someone being bi (or other) and attracted to trans people because they fall under a gender you're attracted to doesn't make you a chaser.

Okay good because I was about to flabbergasted after hearing all this...

52 minutes ago, HalfDomHalfSub said:

Okay good because I was about to flabbergasted after hearing all this...

Lol. I get that

10 hours ago, HalfDomHalfSub said:

Wait.....so if I'm attracted to a trans body.... I'm a "chaser"?
I'm not allowed to be genuinely/sexually attracted to trans people as well as intersex people? Cuz I'll fuck that too if they're willing.

unfortunately there's too many labels out there, the only label we should apply with condemnation is fraudster, all the others are people's preferences and on this site we should accept these preferences, calling you a 'chaser' is fine, so long as its no more comdemnatory than calling someone a brat or a Domme, be a chaser, be happy, be honest, be true to yourself and your partners

On 7/7/2023 at 1:06 AM, HalfDomHalfSub said:

Wait.....so if I'm attracted to a trans body.... I'm a "chaser"?
I'm not allowed to be genuinely/sexually attracted to trans people as well as intersex people? Cuz I'll fuck that too if they're willing.

Being attracted to a trans person certainly does not make you a chaser. A person seeking out trans people because they have a fetish for the fact that they are trans would be a chaser, so it depends on whether you find the person or them being trans the factor that makes them attractive to you. 

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I agree. … I think chasers is more and slang term that was brought out to be common how I see it use in the lifestyle.. no pun intended
So relax keep doing your thing
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Exactly. Nobody should be shamed for finding anyone attractive. From my point of view though is that if anybody wants to call me a chaser for being pansexual then ill just smile and say thank you.
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I’m trans ftm and I think maybe the term gets tossed around wayyyyy too much. To me, it means someone who fetishizes trans bodies to the point of being uncaring about the trans *person*. Sexualizing a trans body is fine by me if it’s consenting ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ in my experience, people who are chasers will only want to talk about your transness, will push boundaries of what you’re comfortable with regarding dysphoria, will make tons of comments regarding common parts of the body that are dysphoric, etc.
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Good read considering I have my first appointment to become mtf w/o bottom surgery. Gave me a ton of insight.
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Cr****

The way I see it is all for those who want to use us and leave us behind, they want the nights fun and never wanna talk again after. They don't want a meal at the restaurant, they want an appetizer to see if they like the flavor, and then decide if they want to never come back solely on the appetizer. (Sorry I like relating topics to food cause it's easier to understand than humans)

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Bi****

I think it's because they have a long history of only being seen as sexual commodities rather than just human beings.

I personally AM a sexual being and thats part of what makes me human. So yes sexualize me and actually do it a lot 🙂↕️

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I will say, as a trans man I am hesitant to label someone as a chaser because chasers to me actually go beyond the sexualizing of trans bodies into misgendering(even discrete misgendering), seeing me as trans before seeing the rest of me, and more importantly non-consensual objectification of me and my body just because I’m trans. There’s a difference between being attracted to a certain body type and feeling entitled to it

I’m very attracted to trans men and women and am friends with and have had sex and kink play with several. I don’t see myself as a chaser. It’s a type I’m attracted to like I’m also attracted to black and Latin men and women a trans that doesn’t mean I’m strictly after sex with them. Friendships and dating aims also what I’m looking for. I’ve been around trans people enough that I’m just as attracted to the person besides the bodies.

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