What’s a good penis length

[Deleted Member]

5 - 7 inches ideal length 🥴

[ey****]

I think you misread - there *isn't* a quick fix.

So, yep there are assorted filters but they're generally pretty obvious.  Ones which apply make up rarely line up and don't look natural. Some which remove blemishes or marks on face (hardly a major makeover?) often tend to leave things looking too smooth and unnatural.

To touch up convincingly takes an awful lot more time and, nah, it's rare.

But also again - for best results, with or without tweaking, would be a case of deciding on a particular day you're going to get a photo - and getting hair done, make up done, etc. And, of course - there is a lady I'm meeting this weekend, she looks very different when we had a video chat at lunch time compared to when we first met at a fetish party.   (mind, I wasn't expecting her call so was in my dressing gow - so - so did I....) 

 

[Sp****]

2 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I think you misread - there *isn't* a quick fix.

So, yep there are assorted filters but they're generally pretty obvious.  Ones which apply make up rarely line up and don't look natural. Some which remove blemishes or marks on face (hardly a major makeover?) often tend to leave things looking too smooth and unnatural.

To touch up convincingly takes an awful lot more time and, nah, it's rare.

But also again - for best results, with or without tweaking, would be a case of deciding on a particular day you're going to get a photo - and getting hair done, make up done, etc. And, of course - there is a lady I'm meeting this weekend, she looks very different when we had a video chat at lunch time compared to when we first met at a fetish party.   (mind, I wasn't expecting her call so was in my dressing gow - so - so did I....) 

 

Eyemblack sheep you have far more knowledge on fetish than 99% of the people on here and dish out loads of invaluable advice on here but on this subject of tech you are not accurate. There are apps available on any smart phone that won’t just change your hair or make up etc I could download one in seconds take a pic of myself and turn myself into the hottest girl ever and set up a profile on here and I guarantee I’d get hit on by a huge number of men that think I’m a hot 21 year old lady with a body to die for. I might even do it to prove a point and share my research data with you just for the lols or would that be seen as deception!!’ 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Deleted Member]

8 hours ago, Spanksy said:

Eyemblack sheep you have far more knowledge on fetish than 99% of the people on here and dish out loads of invaluable advice on here but on this subject of tech you are not accurate. There are apps available on any smart phone that won’t just change your hair or make up etc I could download one in seconds take a pic of myself and turn myself into the hottest girl ever and set up a profile on here and I guarantee I’d get hit on by a huge number of men that think I’m a hot 21 year old lady with a body to die for. I might even do it to prove a point and share my research data with you just for the lols or would that be seen as deception!!’ 🤷🏽‍♂️

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[ey****]

Haha, to stop getting too far off - the type of guys that fall for those are the type who'd fall for Bugs Bunny in Drag.

[Deleted Member]

Tuesday at 08:25 AM, gemini_man said:

Have Linx cans gone out of fashion then? 😃

Doesn't appear so. I seem to get a Lynx Africa gift set every Xmas 😆

[Deleted Member]

Tuesday at 07:47 PM, Spanksy said:

Eyemblack sheep you have far more knowledge on fetish than 99% of the people on here and dish out loads of invaluable advice on here but on this subject of tech you are not accurate. There are apps available on any smart phone that won’t just change your hair or make up etc I could download one in seconds take a pic of myself and turn myself into the hottest girl ever and set up a profile on here and I guarantee I’d get hit on by a huge number of men that think I’m a hot 21 year old lady with a body to die for. I might even do it to prove a point and share my research data with you just for the lols or would that be seen as deception!!’ 🤷🏽‍♂️

Most of the apps that women (or men) will use to make their pics look better have "tells" - if you spend even a bit of time online, you will notice the filters. The smoothness of the skin for example. People aren't stupid. I've had men mention filters to me a lot and they avoid women who use them. So it's counter productive.

[Deleted Member]

31 minutes ago, ManofHonour said:

Doesn't appear so. I seem to get a Lynx Africa gift set every Xmas 😆

It's to check you haven't shrunk with age 😂

[Deleted Member]

6 minutes ago, Dragonflylover said:

It's to check you haven't shrunk with age 😂

Girth maybe not...length..possibly lol

[MissTakenDeep]

This is a very loaded question and the answer is likely to be different for everyone. The best sex I’ve ever had was actually with a man who’s also one of the smallest partners I’ve been with..there was an emotional & mental bond involved and he satisfied both psychological & physical needs…I’ve had other partners with similar sized members that could only get me so far. I’ve also had partners too big to be able to enjoy it, a stretch is something you build up, it’s not necessarily what you want straight away. I’d say any size can work in the right context and it heavily depends on what each person likes.

[Ceejayuk]

I suppose another issue is, men with larger penis's tend to take and show more pics, so those who are not as well endowed see them on sites etc not many people with smaller penis's take and show their pics, so its easy to get a skewed view and think the worst. I imagine its the same with pretty much anything to do with a person's body and body image. (boobs, thighs, bum, belly, legs etc).

[ge****]

6 hours ago, Ceejayuk said:

I suppose another issue is, men with larger penis's tend to take and show more pics, so those who are not as well endowed see them on sites etc not many people with smaller penis's take and show their pics, so its easy to get a skewed view and think the worst. I imagine its the same with pretty much anything to do with a person's body and body image. (boobs, thighs, bum, belly, legs etc).

It is very easy on sites like this to fall into the trap of thinking others are bigger or better somehow for sure - the key to getting past that however has to come from within, and the realisation that you are who you are and can't do a lot to change that other than to play to your own personal strengths - achieve that and other's cock size, body shape etc pale into insignificance.

[ey****]

On 1/15/2022 at 11:46 PM, Dragonflylover said:

Most of the apps that women (or men) will use to make their pics look better have "tells" - if you spend even a bit of time online, you will notice the filters. The smoothness of the skin for example. People aren't stupid. I've had men mention filters to me a lot and they avoid women who use them. So it's counter productive.

I'm mixed bag.  Part of me to a degree might be a little "I want to know what you look like" but then also there's people who I like or have chatted to who don't show face pics - and I guess, to a degree - if I enjoy interacting with someone it doesn't matter *too much* it might only be a problem if their only selling point was a feature.

Maybe that is the big difference.   That there are guys who make their cock size the selling point - and it turns out that wasn't entirely honest.

[Ceejayuk]

2 hours ago, gemini_man said:

It is very easy on sites like this to fall into the trap of thinking others are bigger or better somehow for sure - the key to getting past that however has to come from within, and the realisation that you are who you are and can't do a lot to change that other than to play to your own personal strengths - achieve that and other's cock size, body shape etc pale into insignificance.

While that is true about having to look inside yourself and realise you are who you are, and that a person should not worry about other people, that is far easier said than done.

[ge****]

1 hour ago, Ceejayuk said:

While that is true about having to look inside yourself and realise you are who you are, and that a person should not worry about other people, that is far easier said than done.

It can be for sure - but is the failing of many on sites like this - they spend so much time worrying about and comparing to others, and things they can't control, that sight is lost of themselves and things they can control, and end up potentially missing out as a result.

There really is no point worrying that there's a gym fit guy with a 12" cock and thinking he's cleaning up, more often than not he's not, and besides even if he is, unless you are similarly endowed you'll never match him, so best bet is just be yourself.

As I said right at the start of this thread, most women aren't bothered by the size of someone's cock, more whether the person behind it is a cock themselves or not.

[Fetishlover45]

What is it with comparing length or girth?

I am happy with what nature gave me, yes in an ideal world  i would be bigger but i think thats a male instinct thing.

Evolutionary wise the male of the species would try to impress the females in order to pass on their genes to the next generation. So all these big penis you see in porn etc is just a modern version  

[Deleted Member]

All this discussion over a part of the body that simply cannot be changed. What a waste of energy.

[Deleted Member]

None existent, with a clitoris and  succulent lips opening into heaven where she can be brought to climax by my fingers and tongue.... ooops.... that's a woman... wrong thread

 

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[VoyagerX]

Well not entirely Firewitch.... Although I do get your point if you see what I mean?

Although the head of the visible clitoris varies in size, from ***y-tiny to humongous... just like penis's... It's really what's going on inside that counts.

As I'm sure you're aware the visible part of the clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg so to speak... And the entire organ extends up to a whole 12 m or 5 inches into the female! 😁

This explains a lot!

So I don't know about anyone else... but I'd happily shorten my penis by a couple of inches (I'm being modest of course) in exchange for relentless, multiple orgasms increasing in intensity over many hours or even days!

In short... although having a reasonably impressive member.... I'm coming back as a  next time! 😁

 

 

[VoyagerX]

* female next time!

[VoyagerX]

What is the ideal penis length I wonder?

Surely it's the one that fits perfectly.

And hits all those spots!

The entrance... The g-spot... And the cervix. 

 

Generally speaking the feedback I get from friends and playmates is that girth is the most important factor rather than length.

But of course none of this is important if you don't have a connection and something going on psychologically.

So my counter question would be this....

What's the perfect length of vagina?

[Aquarius_Dom]

Surely which orifice the said penis is penetrating will make the difference between ***, uncomfortable and pleasure?

[Deleted Member]

I’m quite bewildered by this this topic to be fair as a submissive woman. It’s relevant particularly in bdsm and kink because? Physicality in this scene is a priority because? Surely it’s much deeper an experience than that, no? Maybe I’m wrong 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s an interesting one particularly as most of the responses are from men.

[Ke****]

Mine i reckon

[Deleted Member]

January 20, VoyagerX said:

What is the ideal penis length I wonder?

Surely it's the one that fits perfectly.

And hits all those spots!

The entrance... The g-spot... And the cervix. 

 

Generally speaking the feedback I get from friends and playmates is that girth is the most important factor rather than length.

But of course none of this is important if you don't have a connection and something going on psychologically.

So my counter question would be this....

What's the perfect length of vagina?

I am so pleased you asked that last question. As this topic is clearly dominated by a male input. It swings both ways. Surprise 😂 Of course an individual woman’s Anatomy is exactly that. We all look, are sized and are formed differently. Is it a question that’s asked in terms of a woman’s Anatomy. No. Of course the porn industry has a lot to do with, what is the perfect genitalia and of course that completely unrealistic and full on penetration isn’t always the mainstay, is it everyone?