ca**** Posted May 1, 2022 What do people think about subs wearing what are more traditionally Dom clothes and still being submissive. I think it's the biggest turn on and was curious about other peoples thoughts, and if anyone has experience with it or there's a term for it ? I did question if it's me subconsciously being a switch but I'm pretty sure it's just that I'd want a sub wearing bolder clothes.
ma**** Posted May 1, 2022 Well ot would be playing out the dom fantasy so in the act of wearing dom clothing would be an act of submission I think it would symbolise more power and controle feeling for the dom.. well that what I thinks anyway I think it be sexy from my submissive viwe
gi**** Posted May 1, 2022 this is usually me! i wear dark clothes, leather outfits and overall come off as a dominate figure until i’m with someone who brings out my submissive side. people are always confused
ca**** Posted May 1, 2022 Author 4 minutes ago, masochistsub35 said: Well ot would be playing out the dom fantasy so in the act of wearing dom clothing would be an act of submission I think it would symbolise more power and controle feeling for the dom.. well that what I thinks anyway I think it be sexy from my submissive viwe Yeah, that about sums it's up brilliantly. The fact that they appear dominant but are submissive to just you makes it so much sweeter
ca**** Posted May 1, 2022 Author 18 minutes ago, park-city809 said: I like your idea Hope you get to try it out !
ca**** Posted May 1, 2022 Author 7 minutes ago, gingerdreams said: this is usually me! i wear dark clothes, leather outfits and overall come off as a dominate figure until i’m with someone who brings out my submissive side. people are always confused Ahh glad to hear it. Means there might be hope for my search XD !
ma**** Posted May 1, 2022 get it alot because I am a switch dominant men like to see me dress and act dom to the make me submit to them when I am done
ca**** Posted May 1, 2022 Author 3 minutes ago, masochistsub35 said: Oh yes just look for switches and u be able to find someone 🥰🥰 Thanxx, yeah I'll keep an eye out for them now :)
ca**** Posted May 1, 2022 Author 8 minutes ago, 69mmm said: Depends on the gender i would say Yeah, my perspective was always of guy Dom and submissive girls. Couldn't really tell you about any other. Also why I was curious about other opinions
ge**** Posted May 1, 2022 Thing is, what do you define as "more traditionally Dom clothes"? Either way if that's how you're comfortable does it really matter what you wear? The person makes the clothes, not the clothes the person.
BadDesires Posted May 1, 2022 I can see the appeal of a sub in powerful clothing. I'm sure the power play dynamic can be more fun and intense when they surrender into your control.
Deleted Member Posted May 1, 2022 I’ve seen a few profiles that look like Dommes but in fact are subs when you read the profile. Throws me a bit but they look sexy all the same so personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. I doubt it’s a sign that you’re a switch, just that you like that style.
Deleted Member Posted May 1, 2022 I am Dom, but I like thigh boots, leather gloves, leather outfits, even if they are worn by a sub. You like ,what you like. That's the beauty of this world.
MisstressStorm Posted May 1, 2022 I’m a Domme and find a lot of Doms find Mistress Storm alluring. Played with them as long as they leave their Domness at the door and behave like a playmate.
ey**** Posted May 1, 2022 A lot of this depends on your projection of how you would expect submissives or Dominants to dress in the first place.
ge**** Posted May 2, 2022 9 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said: A lot of this depends on your projection of how you would expect submissives or Dominants to dress in the first place. Precisely and put so much more succinctly than my post further up
ca**** Posted May 2, 2022 Author Yesterday at 05:14 AM, gemini_man said: Thing is, what do you define as "more traditionally Dom clothes"? Either way if that's how you're comfortable does it really matter what you wear? The person makes the clothes, not the clothes the person. I guess yeah that makes sense. I just found it more of a turn on. I think I'd say the dominant clothier would be leather bra and stuff like knee high boots and stuff like that
ca**** Posted May 2, 2022 Author Yesterday at 08:51 PM, eyemblacksheep said: A lot of this depends on your projection of how you would expect submissives or Dominants to dress in the first place. Yeah that is a good question to answer to start with. But I guess I meant that I've seen Dom girls and their harness and straps clothes and then found out that they're a sub and it's just been an double turn look Ind of thing
ey**** Posted May 2, 2022 11 minutes ago, fife927 said: Yeah that is a good question to answer to start with. But I guess I meant that I've seen Dom girls and their harness and straps clothes and then found out that they're a sub and it's just been an double turn look Ind of thing some would argue those are a submissive look
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