New kinks for an old kinkster

[Deleted Member]

  Just got here the day before yesterday.  

 I took a kink test that day. I found out I was 48% vanilla.

I had a hard time believing this. For years my interests have included fisting, piss, puke, enemas, gapes, speculum play, breath play, hardcore facefuck puking, domination porn,  hentai, and probably more. Point being, my tastes can get kind of out there, and there's no way I could be into all that and be very vanilla. Then I figured out what it was: a good chunk of the questions were BDSM related, and I've never had an interest in any of that. I'm not into pain, and I couldn't keep a straight face when I'd tried to roleplay. Since I wasn't interested in bdsm all those questions counted against me.

So I started looking into it. Found out that a lot of it wasn't what I expected it to be. My girlfriend and I thought the D/s dynamic seemed like it might be cool. I got on some sites and forums and started looking into it, and it kind of awakened something in me. I re-took the test, having found some new interests, and got a 92% overall score. My girlfriend got 100% Brat, which sounds about right. 

Also, my gf took the test and I got 97% Brat trainer and she got 100% Brat. Apparently it was meant to be.

We're both the kind of people who jump right into new interests, sexual or not, immersing ourselves completely in the culture and lingo. I learned about the BDSM archetypes. I visited multiple sites and forums, learning everything I could.My girlfriend and I talked about it and decided to do it. We started and then something happened to me. This side of myself came out, a Dom side, and my girlfriend and I went with it. She's a natural sub, and took to it like a fish to water. In almost no time we were shoulder-deep in it; face slapping, belt smacking, choking from the front and behind,  fisting, name calling, and eventually knife play, all in one night. We loved every minute of it. I took on a different persona; it really felt like I became another person, a shady, sleazy sadist known only as "Mister." I dove into the role of Brat Tamer, having to correct my Brat all night but not so much that a belt didn't fix the problem. 

We woke up happy, still in that mindset, agreeing to become Dom and sub. It it bleeds over into the non-sexual part of our lives, so be it. She's given me almost total control sexually, and gradually I'm getting control in other areas. It's becoming more like a real D/s relationship.

The point of all that is hello, call me Captain. I look forward to learning some cool shit here.

[saphy]

I couldnt love this more!!!!!! Welcome Captain, to Your re-awakening 🤗

[Deleted Member]

Oh wow what a lovely story to tell welcome to the world of this beautiful Dynamic and enjoy every aspect of your journey together growing together and becoming one together so excited for you both and it’s great to see that going forward you realise lots to learn as there is always something to learn xx

[BigPolly]

Wowzers what an amazing start to an exciting journey...& welcome 😁

[Jed]

Beautiful.....a very warm welcome to you 

[Deleted Member]

Wow really cool. I seeing people's stories of how they got into kink.

[MikeAimingToSatisfy]

I have been a member for several months and have finally got the courage to put my self out there and lose my kink virginity I am looking for a  party or meet or to be involved in a event I am willing to travel this is not a advertisement it’s a general topic about wanting to lose my kink virginity I have been messaged by many people saying I am vanilla I didn’t even know what that was till a few weeks ago when I finally started chatting in the lobby’s instead of just reading I am intrested in any kinky events any help would be appreciated I am available all Saturday day and night willing to travel to loose this cherry I am practically a virgin I have had 1 sexual partner and only done doggy and missionary I like to taste her sweet juices that’s as kinky as I have ever got licking her when she asked was a massive turn on I want to try take part in a face grinding or face fucking event if they exist or anyone has info on them I would appreciate it thanks a lot people all help is welcomed