How To Approach BDSM When Demisexual

[khomx]

Agree, sometimes these relationships can be fun and give you a lot of pleasure without having a sexual contact.

[khomx]

If you're a demisexual, then this doesn't mean that you can't practice BDSM, you just need a person that you will fall in love with, and have the same desires and expectations from each other. Then I see no problem in BDSM, the most important is your partner. You can join a free adult chat site and see how other people who are considering themselves demisexuals are dealing with this. I've read a lot of stories already, and usually the key point is what I told already - your partner.

[cautiousswitch]

SAFE - SANE - consensual

In my opinion, the first two imply that some sort of mental connection has been made before play gets started.  You've at least discussed kinks and limits, which is a conversation most demisexuals wouldn't have if they hadn't crossed their demisexual threshold with the other person.