Limits - accepted or not

[RosesHaveThorns75]

@blackeyedsheep is very correct that loads of guys ive met generally find the idea of junior guys/gals having any limits or control as a definite challenge and yeah the idea of juniors/the staff/femmes even having an input (independence) is often amusing funny/sadistic tone or alarming to them.....in general life ive found not just in D/s stuff.....All interactions are D/s to them with them as the Boss obviously.....being transgender maybe I'd get that reaction more....or just male society I'm in?!?

 

[Tw****]

Maybe it is the kink you are into.

In the London rope scene people have no issues discussing boundaries and call out when enough has been reached regardless of age or role.

[Mistress_Rebeca]

Newbiesub868, breaking limits is typical for ***rs or the people who can't control themselves, so they can't be Doms. This is NOT a real D/s relationship. This is not even a friendly bdsm scene. So just tell yourself you are as worthy of respect as any Dom, and try first to find somebody that knows what a D/s is about. Good luck to you.