advice for femboy/sissy

[Deleted Member]

hii, my question for femdoms is what are common mistakes new femboy/sissies make that femdoms don’t appreciate?

[Je****]

Dominant crossdresser here dunno if you want this opinion but I'm going to give it anyway 😂, Lack of self intent I get so many messages for "dress me up" I get the fantasy but god damn at least own a skirt or know how to do the bare basics of makeup I can't do everything let's dress up together and fuck instead of me dress us both up

[Al****]

I agree with Jessicastroohe. There is a bare minimum that should be met. Showing a lack of effort is always going to be unappreciated. For me personally it would be short skirt, high heels (prerably boots) and a cage as a minimum.

[Tr****]

My advice, would be, after care

[Ca****]

#1 most common mistake is assuming every FemDom WANTS a frmboy/sissy

[Sa****]

Just wanted to say, I thought Amanda Bynes was here lmao

[Deleted Member]

Assuming we can be your teachers too. Some of us enjoy the educational side of it and others would rather you came to us with what you know you want/like.

[Jinxy]

In a similar vein to everyone else, a common mistake is not taking initiative in exploring and researching their kink interests and how it fits with who they are. While, yes, some of that can be done together, I strongly believe the person should have a good foundational understanding of what interests them as well as what their limits are. Having no limits is another common mistake I see often. For me, it’s a huge red flag.

[El****]

Couldn't agree more with Jinxy.

[Ja****]

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[ey****]

I deliberately left this for women replies for a few days before adding some bits

one of the common mistakes folk make in general is aiming a question at a narrow audience. It often feels like a type of baiting rather than a genuine question, even if this is not the case.

an otherwise common mistake is any form of expecting micromanagement - all different shades of subs can be guilty of it - but a lot of sissies/cd/etc can end up asking makeup, fashion, etc. tips or expect to be dressed and such when there is not a shortage of advice and tutorial freely available online, on youtube etc.

another common mistake is falling for porn tropes.  The porn is packaged fantasy, not an example of reality.